ok great question. sex to me is at its core about vulnerability and connection. as a woman, it is the space in which i open and invite someone literally into me (whether hand, penis, dildo, tongue), but also into my thoughts, space, aura, brainwaves, everything... it's the soft space of meeting another in the beating, pressing, wanting... it is the freedom to accept and delight in pleasure in the present moment. to say YES! we can also have sex with ourselves and delight in this YESness with ourselves, alone... sex is that meeting place of joining all of the chakras and opening and allowing our full-body's response to that which turns us on. <3