Well, you have a good idea of the kind of men they are. I'm sure they wouldn't invite you into anything that is dangerous, illegal or immoral. But I can understand being on the fence about it. And as much as we would like to keep good men in the Fraternity, we wouldn't hold it against someone if they chose to separate. Like I said, it's not for everyone. Some people don't find that out until after they've joined and that's okay.
I really do hope you'll give it a little more thought. I'm glad my response helped. Thank you for asking