Yes or No.. living on a Compound?!?

Yes or No on Compound?!?!

When you tell your friends that you want to live on a large compound with friends or multifamily… They will automatically say “you want to start a cult?!?J” Am I the only one out there that finds interest in people coming together, building, growing food, and helping each other appealing? I am not talking about any weird shit either. Regular couples, regular families, but more of a village appeal? No real changes from society other than living on a large piece of land learning from each other as much as we can but coming together to build wealth and a better system for our loved ones.
Why do you think people chase after the life of getting a husband or wife moving into a house and having children, and view these things as outlandish? Did this type of thing have some type of major draw back in our past?
I know this post is short, but I am genially curious about this topic as it is part of my dreams…. Let’s build a compound!