DROP A HONEY
try this technique while conveying your message
"Try to drop a honey"
It simply means that try to be a bit sweeter with your words and let the comminution goes with flow..!!
You 90% more chances to get your work done.
Don't be over sweet that the only thing you do is buttering.
"A DROP OF HONEY ATTRACT MORE FIES THAN A GALLON OF GALL"