There's a reason it's a paradox, another (maybe more) hurtful example is the laws for maids in Gulf countries and some other Arab countries where maids from India, Ethiopia,Thailand, etc... get their passport taken and find themselves in a vulnerable place where they get horribly abused or even murdered. They still go there DESPITE that possibility because their living situations are bad in their own country. And if we might interfere we might be making the situation worst.