Your gramps sounds like my gramps.
Participation trophies, soft parenting, wealth, schools, digital age...So much to blame! The list goes on and it hasn't gotten any better since you wrote this, only much worse. I was never really a mans man either but I wasnt scared to go out and get dirty. Honestly though some countries are worse with major numbers of metro heterosexual men that cant change tires. We're heading that way tho! respect for having the balls to post this