💛 Hi Steemians 你们好，

这星期的的谷歌点名，题目是“认真”。非常感谢 @jubi 举办这个比赛，这比赛不只可以让你发挥一下你的创意灵感，也可以增强写作技巧。如果你也想参加，🔎详情可以查看这里。

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什么样的女人最美丽？

作为一位女人，我认为认真的女人是最美丽的，你觉得呢？女人的美丽不止于外表的美，内心的善良和认真是非常重要的，属语说：“相由心生，境随心转”。若你的内心总是充满着嫉妒，埋怨，或坏念头，无论你的样貌多么的美，看在别人的眼里就只有丑陋罢了。虽然你外表并不出众，但你有一颗善良的心，乐于助人，真诚待人与常说好话，自然别人就会看到你真正的美。外表只是个皮囊，不持久，唯有内心的美才是真善美。

每个人都有权利选择自己的生活方式，但一定要认真的对待。无论是对自己，对工作或对生活。

《对自己》自信与从容

美丽是属于自信者的，而从容是属于有备者的。作为现代的女性，必须学会独立，随时做好准备迎接不同的挑战。休闲时，我喜欢逛书店和阅读不同的书籍。这不只可以提升自己的修为，也可以挣广见闻，学习到很多不同的东西。

此外，我也会让自己去尝试很多不一样的东西，所以我很喜欢旅游。正所谓，“读万卷书，不如行万里路。”在每一个国家游历，不只可以让我感受到不一样的文化气息，也可以让我体验到很多书本里没有的现实磨练。

取景于三亚槟榔谷：下一次我将与你们分享这百年谷黎村的文化体验。

女人必须先爱自己，别人才会爱你。当你认真的善待自己，让自己变得更好时，周边的人会被你的好磁场所感染，会更加的珍惜和疼爱你。这其实也是好男人所欣赏的类型。

《对工作》认真与积极

当你很认真的投入工作时，你会感觉自己充满力量，做事情也会比平常做得更好更顺利。每当我决定要做的事，我都会全心全意，真诚且热心的去投入，希望能把所有的事都办好。就像加入了Steemit这大家庭一样，制作质量好的文章和与我所有的支持者，追随者，所有的Steemians紧密的互动和继续成长，并持续和维持这个非常棒的平台很多很多年。是我坚持要做好的事！

( 昨天一直都进不到Steemit, 加入3个多月来，还是第一次遇到，是有些担心。可是当时还是很乐观，知道一定没事的，还开玩笑想，应该是所有人都太努力写稿，点评，写评语，让大家歇一会吧☺️。虽然很不幸的，是被人DDos Attack, 但我个人认为，这未必是坏事，所谓 “树大招风” 这就证明，我们大家一起把Steemit做好就对了！还有也要非常的感谢所有 Team Steemit 的伙伴们和所有帮忙的人，在那么快的时间可以把网站恢复正常。👍 )

这也是我所指的，对工作的认真与积极的态度。😊

我常告诉自己，活着就要保持一个积极的心态，凡事都往好的方面去想，不管遇到什么困难，都一定能解决。我是一位特殊小孩的治疗师，我常会遇到很多不同的挑战，除了必须承受负面情绪上的挑战，有时还会有小孩失控攻击的情况出现。但作为一位治疗师，我必须给予父母支持和鼓励，让他们可以勇敢的去接受和面对。

《对生活》态度与讲究

有素养有品位的女人懂得如何享受生活，坚持自己的生活品味，知道怎么去精心调理和装扮自己，那流露出的态度与讲究是最吸引人的。我觉得就像买东西一样，不一定要贵，贵的也不一定好，最重要的是自己觉得舒服和自在。

吃东西和做饭也是一样，简简单单的食材，只要用心和认真的去做，对每一个做法都很细心和讲究，品尝的人不只可感受到那份真诚和美味，烹煮的人也会觉得很满足。

如果能够掌握好自己想要的生活方式，在自己的经济范围内达到对生活品质的讲究与追求，那么别人自然会觉得你很迷人，对你另眼相看。对生活认真负责的人，却不会允许自己糟糕邋遢。永远保有自己的信仰，这样才能成为一个有灵魂的女人。🙂

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For English Readers

Please bear with me as this is a Chinese Essay Writing Competition and it’s not an easy task to interpret and express every little nuance of what i’m trying to say in different language. But I will do my best for you to understand in a big picture of what i’m writing about.

This week's SEO Google contest, the title is "serious/earnest". Thank you very much @jubi to host this game, which will not only allow you to play your creative inspiration, but also enhance your writing skills. This is a Chinese Writing Competition, if you’d like to participate, you can view the details here.

What Kind of Women Are The Most Beautiful?

As a woman, I think “Earnest Women Are The Most Beautiful”, don’t you think so? The beauty of a woman is more than the beauty of the appearance, the inner beauty of kindness and earnest of a women are very important, there’s chinese a saying: “One’s Appearance is formed from the Heart and Thought of Oneself.” If your heart is always full of jealousy, blame, or bad thoughts, no matter how beautiful your appearance is, you’ll somehow portrait an ugly side for people to see it.

Although you’re appearance is not outstanding, but if you have a good heart, helpful, sincere and often said good and kind words to others, naturally others will see your true beauty. Appearance is only a temporary flesh, it doesn’t last forever, only the inner beauty are genuinely the true beauty of oneself.

Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, but one must be earnest about it. Whether it is to yourself, for your work or in life.

[On Oneself] Confidence and Calmly

As a modern woman, you must learn to be independent and ready to meet all kind of different challenges. During my leisure time, I’d like to go to the bookstore and read different kind of books. This not only enhance your cultivation, but earn valuable knowledge as well.

In addition, I will let myself try a lot of different things, and so I love to travel. There’s a chinese saying “Read ten thousand books, not as good as travel ten thousands miles.” Travel in every different countries, not only that I learnt and feel different cultural atmosphere, but also allows me to experience and do a lot more than a book could in reality.

Always think that you deserve better. Women must love themselves, therefore others will love you. When you’re seriously treating yourself, make yourself better, people around you will affected by your positive aura and will appreciate and love you even more. As a matter of fact, these are the qualities that good men admire the most.

[On Work] Serious and Positive

When you’re seriously and put effort into your work, you’ll feel full of strength and energy, and things will get done much smoother and successfully. Whenever I decided to do something, I will wholeheartedly, sincerely and passionately put into it, and hope that all things can be done perfectly.

It’s the same as when I joined Steemit’s Big Family, I want to produce good quality contents and connected with all of my supporters, followers and all Steemians to continue grow, and keep sustaining this amazing platform for many many years to come.

(Yesterday had been unable to enter Steemit webpage for many hours, I’ve joined more than three months now, and this was the first I’ve encountered. I had some worries, but was still very optimistic, and knew that all will be well, and thought very funny, perhaps everyone are too hardworking on writing posts, comments and upvotings. So, steemit down for awhile, and let everyone took a short break ☺️. Unfortunately it was a DDos Attack, but personally, I don’t think this is all bad, as a chinese saying “ Taller trees catches more wind” it means, if you’re too big / famous, naturally you’re being targeted more. From this point of view, proven that we work hard and build Steemit is the right and best decision! Last but not least, I’ll like to give my thanks to Team Steemit and all the people who helped the website up and running in such a short period of time.)

This is also what I mean, treating your work seriously with a positive attitude.😊

I often tell myself, staying alive is to maintain a good positive attitude, use a positive mindset on everything we’ve encounter in life, no matter what difficulties, we’ll be able to solve them.

I am a special education therapist, I often encounter many different kind of challenges, in addition to the negative emotional challenges, sometimes there will be children out of control and attack situation occurred. But as a therapist, I must give parents support and encouragement so that they can be brave to accept and face them positively.

[In life] Attitude and Perfection

Women with good taste and self-cultivation know how to enjoy quality life. They know how to carefully conditioning, dress and take good care of themselves, and that show the correct manner and paying attention to detail in perfection are the most attractive of a woman.

I think it’s similar to buy a product, we’re not necessary have to buy the most expensive products, and expensive products are not necessarily good, the most important is that they feel comfortable and suitable to us.

Besides that, eating and cooking are the same, even with just some simple ingredients, but use your heart and soul and put effort into cooking it, being carefully and particular in every little details, the person who taste it will appreciate the sincerity and a delicious meal, the person who cook them will be very satisfied.

If you can master the way how you want to live your life, under your own possible economic range to achieve the best quality of life and pursue it, then others will naturally feel that you are very charming, and looked at you differently. Those who are seriously responsible for their life, and not allow themselves to be badly sloppy.

Always keep their own faith, therefore will be able to become the truly heart and soul woman. 🙂

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