靠得住，比什么都重要！

做男人最重要的，不是让自己过的好，而是让家人过的好。不是让自己有信心，而是让身边人有信心。男人最大的付出，就是为了家人而宁愿改变自己。有时候，懂得生活，改变自我，反而是一份成熟的承担。所以啊，选男人，还是要选个有承担的。靠得住，比什么都重要

To be the most important thing for a man is not to make himself good, but to make his family well. Not to have confidence in yourself, but to make people around you confident. Men's biggest pay, it is for the family and would rather change themselves. Sometimes, to understand life and change oneself is instead a mature commitment. So ah, choose a man, still have to choose a bear. Reliable, more than anything else