支配者和迎合者

支配者的“好”是“我有力量”，“坏”是无助，力量和无助是一对根本人性；
迎合者的“好”是无私，“坏”是自私，无私和自私也是一对根本人性；

自恋可以表达为两句话“我是对的”，“我比你强”。支配者追求的是“我比你强”，迎合者追求的是“我是对的”。
诱惑者的“好”是性感，“坏”是没有魅力，这就更不用说了，也是人性。

当看清你自己的逻辑的时候，要请记住这个逻辑自身其实没那么重要，重要的是我们都是想通过这套逻辑，去建立关系。
成年人的愿望和心智非常复杂，但每个人都有一个根本的愿望——真正地遇见一个人。

The "good" of the dominator is "I have strength", "bad" is helplessness, strength and helplessness are a pair of fundamental human nature;
The "good" of the cater is selfless, "bad" is selfishness, selfless and selfishness as well as a pair of fundamental human nature;
Narcissism can be expressed in two sentences, "I am right", "I am better than you". What the dominator seeks is "I am better than you", and the cater is pursuing "I am right".
The Seducer's "good" is sexy, "bad" is no charm, that is not to say, but also human nature.
When we see clearly your logic, it is not so important to remember this logic itself. What's important is that we all want to establish relations through this logic.
The aspirations and minds of adults are very complex, but everyone has a fundamental desire to meet a person.