THE RISK OF PICKING A WIFE IN THE CHURCH

The house of of God is a place where hypocrisy abounds. It's a place that house and harbour liars, thieves, criminals and so on. However, people display the good side of them in the church which gives everyone a good impression about them.

Ladies are known to be more religious than men and this is very evident by their activeness and punctuality towards religious activities compared to men.

Many ladies parade and disguise as angels in the church, and if a brother is not careful, he will invite catastrophe into his life because it takes critical observation to actually unravel the true nature of many church ladies.

The church has created an environment where any unrepentant slut with series of abortions can easily walk into the church the moment she wants to get married, and how does she achieve this? She either joins the choir or become very active in other church activities and watch how the attention of single bothers is focused on her. The church is the best place for people like that since the church is the place where everybody put on their best character.

Many believe that the church is the place to find a wife but from my own research, I tend to disagree with this notion. Isn't it even better if you walk into the hotel or club house to pick a wife since you already know who you are marrying and what to expect of her unlike when the same lady is decently dressed to the church acting like someone who has never seen a joystick before

Some churches are not helping relationship matters due to the weird and over-religious doctrines guiding relationships. Many doctrines allow the chance to jump into marriage viewing things only from the spiritual angle alone. They tell you once you are spiritually compatible, other things don't really count. They do not create the chance for both of them to know more of each other before taking marriage as a consideration, and this is where many people get it wrong.

Recently, some people are now running their relationships without wanting the interference of their pastors or leaders in the church. They look for a lady they are compatible with (character, beauty and intellectual wise) and wouldn't let over-spirituality cloud their reasoning.

That innate hypocrisy and avariciousness is ever present in many ladies in the church and one really needs to be careful.

My advice for Christians brother is to open their eyes and be very watchful and observant. Don't be misguided viewing things from a spiritual angle only. The ladies you see in church are not different from the ones you see in the brothel or club house. Be wise!

For the hypocritical ladies who form holiness in Churches, men have learnt to see through the hypocrisy and forced piety.

I hope someone learnt something from this

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