I just wanted to follow-up and say that I appreciate the conversation and didn't mean to sound snippy or anything. Some people ask a lot of questions but don't really care about the answers and it can be frustrating. At the same time, I didn't come to the understanding that I have overnight and I don't expect others to either.
I am not here to give you a hard time but as you say, "Better to offend with the TRUTH"
Take care and keep searching.