MIND YOUR COMPANION AND BE SELECTIVE IN THE CHOICE OF FRIENDS, BUT BE EXTRAVAGANT IN SHOWINGGOD'S LOVE TO OTHERS

in #christian-trail6 years ago

Proverbs 13:20

He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

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The human mind is a very impressionable stuff, easily adopting and adapting to influences around it. This is more pronounced in children and young people, who must mimic and copy what they see and hear as a part of their growth and development process.**

That leads me to ask who is your friend?

Because, according to Jim Rohn;

You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.

Are you friends and associates really impacting you positively, or are you among the group that have gone bad as a result of wrong associates or friends.

I grew up in very messed up environment, where raising a kid could cost a mother her career, but one thing saved me and that's the choice of friendship, I knew Jesus at my tender age, and in my infantry bible class, my teacher will always tell us a biblical stories and warn us to keep away from people like that(bad), and make friend with people like this(good). Proverbs 13:20 He that w that have kept me away from wrong ways.

Remember Ammon, the son of David was destroyed because of the influence of his cunny friend, Jonadab;

            *2samuel 13:1-14, 26-32*

And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her.
But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David's brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man.
And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king's son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister.
And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand.
So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand.
Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon's house, and dress him meat.
So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes.
And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him.
And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.
And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.
And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.
And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.
Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

That's what a bad friend can do to us, flew from such people like Jonadab.

Right now, you may say, thank God I don't keep friends, or I don't go out, but the is;

What are you doing with your leisure time.

What are you watching on that television.

What kind of book are you reading, is it edifying your Christian life?.

Distractions are everywhere, a lot of things are dragging to have our attention, but the good news is that, it goes to side you turned to listen, while not choice to listen to what the bible is talking, Jesus is our true friend, a friend of all time, He teaches us how to benefit ourselves.

Evil companion can ruin your great future, if you let them.

Make friends of Gods children
Don't go on conformity, because everyone in your local area are the same, and you are like an outcast, don't be moved by that.

Remember Jesus Christ and come to Him, He awaits you, dear friend! Will you keep Him waiting,He alone is the true friend of humanity.

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Thanks for sharing with Us @STEEMCHURCH!

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I am most grateful @steemchurch, I love all you guys,, everyone there is my friend. God bless us.

That is a very powerful topic, some people's comes to way because of what we have, what they can get not to add values to our lives. The choice of friends we take must be looked at. The only true friend a man can trust is the Lord.

That's the truth, my brother

This is powerful "Distractions are everywhere, a lot of things are dragging to have our attention, but the good news is that, it goes to side you turned to listen, while not choice to listen to what the bible is talking, Jesus is our true friend, a friend of all time, He teaches us how to benefit ourselves."

Thanks, He really teaches us.@odsam2

In the journey of life,we come across people everyday, some are willing to be our friend.
The choice to want to keep them as a close friend or casual friend is our responsibilities.
There are some friends who are just better to be afar due to our believe. We don't have to hate anyone and we don't have to make everyone our close friend.

Some friends are backbiter while some are killers of destiny. It is wise to choose our friends right.

Oh what a friend we have in Jesus. He's the best and trusted friend

Thanks, your words are inspiration to me!

This is great topic, As a Christian We must be mindful of the friends we go out with, everybody is not your friend

Thanks, for your big contribution, God bless you

there is a saying show me your friend and i will tell you who you are, we shpuld be very selective in chosing friends because your friends will go a long way in alterong your behaviour and vision. And some friends might be betrayals. We should put our friendship in christ alone

I love that place, you mentioned vision, its very important as to make good friends for vision's advancement.

Those who you call your friends may fail you but the living God will never fail you even when your hope is lost and even when you think that all things are gone.
Never out all your trust in a man because they can lead you to your eternal destruction but the living God will always be there for you in a bad conditions.
Do not let your self to be desieved
put your trust in the living God and he will always give yiy all you deserve
The more we call our self try Christians and do the things of the Lord the devil will always be there to tempt u through the sins of the flesh like sex, drug and so on .
The devil hasno better plan than to destroy us and take the relationship between us and God away.
Be careful what you do for christ will always be there to see you through even when the enemy is around and this is for those who truelly believe in him and do his will.

Our lives should be focussed on how to please God and not humans , an encounter with the savour is the best thing that we should aways pray for every time if our lives .
Righteousness is the key to everything we need.
Those who have put their whole heart and trust in the hand of God will never be lost in all they do and they will always be provided with all their needs.
Working towards faith is all we should be doing all the time .
Humility and faith through christ can bring us closer to God .
When you accept christ in your life you have already made a decision of being with him and working for him through your believe
its tells us what the lord will definiatelly do for you , the lord has made all things specially for you and you alone

God never ever fail, thanks for this rhema

God uses friendship as an instrument of sanctification. It is important that all
Christians carefully choose their friends. In the past I used to have trouble choosing
friends and I’ll tell you from experience friends can either bring you up in life or
bring you down.

Hmmmm you just super! Friends can bring a person down or lifts such person, ..I hear that one.

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So much gratiful @wafrica for giving voice to the voiceless.

Companionship is so important that if you get lonely enough, you may be tempted to hook up with the first people who show any interest in you. But that’s a mistake. You’re better off waiting for the right friend to come along than having a whole crowd of the wrong friends. Proverbs 12:26 says, “A righteous man is cautious in friendship, but the way of the wicked leads them astray“ (Proverbs 12:26). Proverbs 18:24 says, “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother“ (Proverbs 18:24).

Those words of yours, sunk down my heart, thanks for that, am touched

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