It Is Not By Force IV, Contributed By @Olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2 and part 3
When your relationship is making you sad rather than excited, I think it is common sense to leave when you still can, if you know you can’t keep up or adjust yourself to suit it. There are some sacrifices that are too steep to delve into when it comes to a relationship. You don’t have to lose yourself all in a bid to satisfy your partner who won’t even do the same for you.
When this man knows he wants someone with such level of experience, why then did he go for a virgin? He should have fled or perhaps be more gentle and understanding with his to be wife. This is what happens when guys set a particular age limit for them to get married. They just pick anyone that is available and try to force them to suit their selfishness. It will not take anyone a magic want to know this man married this lady just to fulfil his sexual fantasies. It is obvious that if this lady goes through with this marriage, this man would cheat on her at some point. How? Because she might not be able to live up to his sexual fantasies and he would feel deprived, frustrated and angry to the point of seeking someone out there with experience, even if it requires going for a prostitute.
I think at this point, this wonderful lady has to take responsibility for her own life, regardless of what people think or might say. It is understandable if the parents kick against the break up because they are obviously concerned about the image of the family rather than her emotional state. Like I said early, life assumes you are mature once you take that bold step to get married. This guy obviously doesn’t love her enough since he wants someone to only practice his sexual fantasies with.
This is why I pointed out in the first chapter that, it is ridiculous to see people desiring to get married for out of reality reasons. She is a human being for crying out loud, not some gadgets to be toyed with. Assuming she is even a gadget, there are some gadget they will tell you to handle with care, else you risk damaging such gadget. I wonder why he feels he can twist a human being all in the name of free sex that comes with marriage when she is not a goat meat.
…to be continued…
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The man should go for those girls that stays at road sides and those that stays at hotels or sugar girls. Not an innocent girl like her
Best thing for the girl is to just break up with him cos they didn't match at all. Shes not his type
Well said, no need to leave yourself on bid, do what you want ,go into relationship if you are mature enough to understand others feelings. There involved a commitment in it. So you need to be prepare yourself.Good day @olawalium
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Absolutely. Relationship is about commitment and sacrifices.