Parenting is so hard. I have 4 year old twins, and boundaries are difficult but essential. Time to yourself as a person is essential. Time as a couple (without kids around) is also vital for the longevity of the relationship. But we all have different approaches, and I don’t think I know better than anyone else. Heck, I’m barely surviving as a mother sometimes. 😆 The key is to keep breathing, right? 😉