Why The World Must End Child Marriage

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Why The World Must End Child Marriage — In Photos
KAELYN FORDE
LAST UPDATED JANUARY 13, 2016, 3:30 AM

PHOTO: COURTESY OF STEPHANIE SINCLAIR/TOO YOUNG TO WED.
This story was originally published on September 18, 2015.

Worldwide, more than 700 million women living today were married before the age of 18; of those, more than one in three women were wed before the age of 15, according to the United Nations International Children's Emergency Fund (UNICEF). India alone accounts for one third of all child marriages, according to UNICEF. You can read the story of Sonali Khatun, a child bride who fought to get divorced at 14 and became an advocate for girls in her community, here.

Child marriage robs girls of the opportunity to finish their education, and girls who are forced to have children too early are more likely to die during childbirth or suffer serious complications. Girls forced to wed too young are also vulnerable to sexual abuse and domestic violence.

Photographer Stephanie Sinclair has dedicated more than a decade of her life to capturing the faces and voices of these child brides. Over the past 13 years, her work has taken her to places as diverse as India, Afghanistan, Guatemala, Yemen, Nepal, and Ethiopia. Sinclair's goal is to raise awareness about child marriage worldwide through her photographs, as well as to give girls better opportunities through the nonprofit organization she founded, Too Young To Wed.

Sinclair spoke to Refinery29 from her home in New York's Hudson Valley.

Why did you feel documenting child marriage was such an important project to undertake?
"I started this project in 2003. Previously, I was a conflict photographer, and I was covering child marriage while I was working in Afghanistan. I think most people think of child marriage as something that happened generations ago, when people didn't live as long and didn't have the same access to education...most of us think that this isn't still happening — girls being married at very young ages (nine, 10, 11 years old, some of them pre-pubescent).

"But when I was working in Afghanistan, there were several girls throughout the country who were setting themselves on fire; they were attempting suicide. When I went to the hospital to talk to the survivors, I learned that they had been married at very young ages. I felt that I had to make sure that if I was going to cover something so intense, like these suicide attempts, I had to look at the reasons behind them. It wasn't the only reason, but being married very young was a sort of primary common denominator. The girls weren't very articulate, because they were in a lot of pain, but there was this common denominator of why they had done this.

"Then, I realized that this was an issue that was happening worldwide and that was very much still alive. But there were no photographs of it — no visual evidence. So my goal was to provide this evidence. I started in Afghanistan and then traveled to 10 different countries. We see child marriage happening the most in developing countries, but we also have child marriage in the U.S. and in Europe — not in high numbers, but it exists."

Too Young To Wed is also selling Sinclair's prints to help support programs for girls around the world.

Photo caption: “Whenever I saw him, I hid. I hated to see him,” Tehani (in pink) recalls of the early days of her marriage to Majed, when she was six and he was 25. The young wife posed for a portrait with former classmate Ghada, also a child bride, outside their home in Hajjah, Yemen.

Correction: An earlier version of this story incorrectly stated that one in three women alive today were married before the age of 15. It is in fact one in three women of the 700 million who were married before the age of 18, according to UNICEF.

What does childhood marriage rob girls of?
"We are trying to raise awareness, especially because the issue is so huge. A girl is married against her will every two seconds around the world. One in three girls [is] married before [she] turns 18.

"Childhood marriage has many harmful repercussions. One of the biggest thing it robs girls of is their education; if they marry and they are not literate, they lack power. If a girl's husband dies or leaves her or they get divorced and she can't read, she can't support herself. I think education is something they miss out on really from the time they get engaged and are taken out of school.

"Health-wise, one of the biggest issues is that girls who give birth before the age of 15 are more than twice as likely to die during childbirth. Their children are also at greater risk to be born premature, because the girls' hips aren't wide enough. They end up in obstructed labor, and they can end up with fistulas because they are pushing their bodies so much, and their bodies aren't ready for it.

"There is also significant emotional trauma and stress, not to mention sexual violence. In these early marriages, girls are becoming sexually active before they can give this consent, and that's a big deal."

Photo caption: A woman tends to grain during the rainy season in Bahir Dar, Ethiopia on August 13, 2012. According to the United Nations Population Fund, UNFPA, 37% of young women in sub-Saharan Africa ages 20 to 24 were married before turning 18. In 2010, there were 13.1 million girls married by age 18 in sub-Saharan Africa, and the number is expected to rise to 15 million by 2030.

Although poverty plays a huge role, some well-off families also choose to marry off their girls. What are some of the factors behind child marriage?
"It's mostly happening in developing areas where poverty is an issue. But it's often complicated, because families are also trying to protect their girls. They sometimes feel that when girls are getting to an age where they are menstruating, they don't want the girls to be walking to school and be attacked and lose their virginity or become pregnant. A lot of these girls are walking three or four miles to school each day.

"When menstruation begins, there is also frequently not a private place for girls to wash at school. So a lot of families don't want their girls to go to school when they have their periods. In some cases, there is abuse by male teachers...sometimes, families don't send their girls to school because they don't want them to be assaulted... But it's a vicious cycle, because if girls don't stay in school long enough to graduate, they can't become [the] female teachers [those communities need].

"One of the biggest issues globally is that girls are not being valued outside of their bodies. Their value is still found in their fertility, their sexuality, their ability to work as labor. But they are not being seen for the value of their minds and what they can bring in terms of ideas, the way men are seen."

Photo caption: Young girls sit inside a home outside of Al Hudaydah, Yemen. Yemen's women's rights groups agree that child marriage is rampant in every part of Yemeni society.
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Is it also true that families marry off girls because they view them and their sexualities as a burden, or something to be controlled?
"I would say that most parents aren't trying to hurt their kids. I have been working on this project for a long time, and I have seen many girls get married. I do think some of this is done to protect them. People in conservative Muslim societies sometimes require girls to wear the niqab [a veil that covers the entire face except for the eyes] and they see this as a way of protecting girls, whereas other people see that as a way of controlling them. So there are two sides to this argument.

"One of the things we find is that in times of stress, whether that is poverty, conflict, or a natural disaster, you are seeing families sort of taking a dual decision. They can't care for the burden of extra children, so they put girls with other families and bring income to their own family...through a dowry. The other side is that, in some ways, they also see it as a way to protect girls. If they are in school and reach puberty, they can risk losing their honor, the family's honor, by losing their 'purity.' That burden of maintaining purity and virginity is still something placed on girls."

Photo caption: Rajni, 5, was woken up at 4 a.m. and carried by her uncle to be married in a secret wedding ceremony. She and her sisters, Radha, 15, and Gora, 13, were married to three young brothers on the Hindu holy day of Akshaya Tritiya in North India.

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i think you should just ask the child

maybe it wants out of daddy up its ass

ask the child

how about that for an idea ?

In many countries small girl are very much bounded for not to put up any questions in any fields...their elder kept them so threaten that they are not able to discuss the matter of their life

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