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RE: ✴️ Why Don't People Like To Change? It's Necessary Too Live A Long and Happier Life 💞
I think the main reason people do not like to change especially themselves is that it brings their "old" life in doubt. The ego gets offended as you question your values and beliefs. The deeper they are the more you question your beliefs from the past and maybe realize you "wasted" some (or even a lot ) of time on x or y.
But this is actually bullshit for 2 reasons.
a) your old behaviour, habits and values formed you into the person you are today
b) if you are unhappy with your current situation you should take a lookt at the things you do, because you (and I mean you, not your circumstances, finacial background etc) is responisble of who you are.
Change can be scary but is necessary to grow. I really like this quote from a "Dead Prez" song
The universe contains incredible diversity
And you cannot experience it all within the confines of one comfortable lifestyle
Look ahead to what you will think of your life at it's end
You will probably not want to look back and say it was cozy and dull
Thus, react positively to what seems to be disaster
Remember that what seems how to be disaster may be an important step toward evolution
And may even be identifiable as such at some point in the future
Every great loss takes you out of a rut and starts life anew
Be grateful for the time you had and your former happy state
And look forward eagerly to the new phase"
You broke it down like a champ @flipstar... "Change can be scary but is necessary to grow"
You're making me youtube the Dead Prez song now haha.
Appreciate ya boss :)