Character watch happiness
Character determines fate, don't let your temper ruin your blessing.
There is a saying in Buddhism: "Anger is the slave of the heart."
A person who cannot control his temper will only trouble people in all aspects. How many underachievers have gradually come to the center of power by virtue of their perseverance. How many dudes have ruined their centuries-old business.
Although Lin Zexu was very diligent and studious when he was a child, he was quick-witted and quick-tempered. He was often angry at one or two unsatisfactory words.
To avoid being short-tempered, his father Lin Binri told him a story:
One day, two big men took a young man to the government and accused the young man of being a heinous and unfilial son. The county official was upright and impatient, and angrily ordered someone to beat up the young man.
An old woman rushed into the hall with crutches, crying and said, "My master, please help us! Two thieves sneaked into my house to steal cows just now. My son found out and wanted to send them to the government. Kidnapped."
Only then did the county magistrate know that his temper was being used.
After Lin Zexu heard the news, he suddenly realized. Later, he also hung a horizontal plaque written with his own handwriting "Rage Control" in a conspicuous place in the room.
Grumpy is the devil. If you don't control it, it will swallow you.
Everyone has their own temperament, but this does not mean that you will lose your temper. A good or bad temper not only affects your quality of life, but also affects your destiny.
You know, life is for happiness and joy, not for anger and trouble. Stupid people will only get angry, smart people know that it is better to control anger than to get angry.
There is a famous saying: "Grumpy, like a sunny day, there is light everywhere, so you can bring your own light." Don't hurt others, but illuminate yourself.
The greatest blessing in life is to have a good temper.
Don't let your temper hinder your happiness, because all happiness is hidden in your temper.
Good temper, good life
In life, when encountering bad things, everyone loses their temper, but losing their temper does not solve the problem. It will bring pain to us and others.
Being good at adjusting one's mentality is the greatest wealth in life. A good attitude and popularity, because you know how to be tolerant; a good attitude, everything will go smoothly, because you will not insist on trivial things; a good attitude, a happy life, because you know you should let go.
Don't let the temper as big as the ability. The stronger the person, the less the temper. A person with a good mentality is perfect everywhere. Too many times, just because there is no way, it will be furious.
Life is determined by oneself, and mentality is also determined by oneself. What kind of temper you have, what kind of life you will end up with. Only a person with a perfect character can expect to have a perfect life, and a person who controls the character throughout his life can understand what true happiness is!