RE: Do you like change? I don't!
I'm a bit of a risk-taker, and I think that's why I enjoy certain types of change, and even encourage it sometimes. For example, when I was made redundant from my job 8 years ago I was overjoyed, because I'd been bullied in an attempt to force me to do the job for less pay, and the situation had become unbearable. I'd been planning a new business for over a year, and just needed the redundancy offer. The business only lasted five years, and it's been a tough road, but I've gained much better work/life balance, and more long-term (but not short-term) financial security.
Sudden change can be terrible, like a hillwalking accident I had last year, where I lost five teeth. That's probably the biggest change I've faced recently. But change can also be like a kick in the butt to shift you into a more wholesome way of life.
I suppose the advice I'd give is to be calm and try to laugh your way through the change. When I was being bullied at work, I started going to Buddhist meditation group at lunchtime as it made me feel calm and put everything into perspective.
Different people feel differently about change. Some love it and some hate it. I am glad that you looked at your situation positively. When I look back after experiecncing change I can almost always see the benefit. It is when I am in the moment that I struggle the most. Thanks for adding to the conversation.
That's a very good point. Change can be awful when you're in the middle of it, but when you look back with a calm head you see what the learnings were.