June 30 Days Writing Challenge - Life Hacks - Day Nine: Help your soul

This post is contributed to June 30 Days Writing Challenge - Life Hacks - Day Nine that is hosted by @dragosroua .

In the run with our robotic life its hard to get a person with a lot of affection to us without any self-interest.

You can say a lover who can sacrifice life for love has also a secret desire from lover. Sometime a lover even don't realize that they have desire on mind besides selfless affection.

You can say a friend chat with their close friend without any self-interest. i don't think so. They feel each other when they are together and they get much fun or interest to talk with. A close friend couple (boy-boy, girl-girl,boy-girl whatever the sex are) may be chat 10 times daily or meet 10 times daily, sometime they meet and don' t even have any topic to discuss but getting interest to walk together. All of these option have a secret attraction between both of them. When they lost it then they will not wanted to meet, chat together like before. So i can say there is also a self-interest working.

You might be got news besides these self-interest matters. These are exception and you must be know that exception is not an example.

People said a proverb in our area 'Tiger eat the beneficial person' . i saw a lot of people saying that in front of me. They believe, if they do good for others that will return you a pain in any way. So their logic is not to get too close to anyone to help from heart; If that is just a basic help then that is alright. But to me, the logic is not same like them. i like to help people. Help doesn't means only with money, it can be any other way, it may be a nice talk even they are your enemy and caught in danger. It can be a walk with someone and show them direction to a place which is unknown to them, it can be little work to move their furniture at home, can be little hard work to care of others gardening; carry a heavy bag to their home. I mean to say there is so many ways to help without any self-interest . Sometime the person whom you help forget your help and in return they give you pain with talk, quarrel. So finally what you got after help! i say Helping others means helping your soul .

When i help someone i saw a smile at the end and that make my soul filled with joy. That award is my main point. This award only can achieved by helping others. The feelings is so different and that only be get by helping others. If i think i will help those who will able to help me, then i am selfish for sure. So my moto is to keep helping people whatever they give in return or not . i am helping my soul by helping others, i am serving my soul by serving others :)