busy life

it's getting quite busy recently, i'm not sure if that's because i'm becoming 30 or something else. there's a Chinese saying that a man at his thirties will be able to support his own family. I think that's not an easy job for most men in present China.
Graduating in 2010 I've been working for about 6 years, seeing a couple of job opportunities but still not having the right feeling about a personal career. Maybe that's normal, it's open to question if you could really control your life even if you have a decent job.
Abracadabra.