It is okay if you can provide what ever your people are in need of

It's okay if you are the bread winner of your family. Just give them gladly and give thanks to God for the opportunity cos many people wish to be in that position you are but God choose you.
God choose you to be the bread winner or the giver not because you can pray cos people who can pray more than you are there but he still choose you

God choose you to be the bread winner or the giver not because you don't sin against God, saints are out there but he choose you because he love you

Remember someone else will do it if you didn't. Remember someone else will help if you can't help. God provide for you so as to take good care of your people so make the will of God by being a giver, make God's will by helping your people

It's not only your family that God sent you to, he sent you to your neighbor, everyone around you. Just do your best with the little you have, do your best with the power you have and blessings shall come your way

It happens they didn't help you when you are in need of their help and now they need your help, that's life, don't retaliate,worship God through them, help them out so they can realize their mistakes

I attended a cousin graduation last Saturday and almost all family members was present and fortunately my uncle that didn't help me when I needed his help when was at school was present too. I spent money at the boss and he did too. He never believe I can spend that much

We did some minutes family meeting after the party program and that was when almost everyone was thanking me for what I'm doing for the family members and blamed those that don't do but have more than I do.

I was Happy and still promised more. I still gave my uncle's wives transport fare when they where leaving

I didn't retaliate, I let them realised their mistakes and have a good records and would still do more cos I notice as I give, God provides more for me.

make good records too, do your best for people around you and let them say good things about you even if you aren't around or can't do anymore. Everything have time, do it now that you can cos you can't have it forever

even forever ain't forever

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