Why someone leaves ???

in #busy6 years ago

Why someone leaves……..???
(Some questions have no answers so this also have no answer but this is just the explanation of this question but not the answer)
There could be so many reasons that why a person leave quit or end a relationship, but only valid reasons can be considered not the lame one. Relationship can not only be ended by a boy it can be ended by a girl as well because this thing is not gender dependent. To leave someone is not that much easy infect it is like impossible but for those who have a mindset that we are only passing time or just for 1 or 2 years months or for the sake of entertainment YES it is the most easiest thing for such kind of monsters because I don’t think so that they even are humans, this is not the right thing as you are not allowed to play with the feelings of others. NO not on any cost and you do it just for time pass or to have fun, it just shows that you are more worst then any wild creature present on this whole universe. When someone leaves, they just leave because we cannot stop them as we do not owe people they are free to do anything but when in a relationship both are happy this is what you think not the other he or she just make mind to quit and what you can do at that time ??? NOTHING seriously you cannot do anything you cannot have them back because if they are meant to be yours or if they are capable of keeping their words promises they will not do this, they leave cause they have new plans they have made a backup as their intentions were not pure from the beginning but it was you who was blind to this cause you loved them with passion with your whole heart and soul but sometimes we do right things for wrong and toxic people and one day no matter what they will stab you and they show the real faces.
They leave and they say we did it for their good like seriously??? You ruined a person and you did for their goodness??? This is the lamest and stupid thing I must say. A person is crying for you and asking you not to leave and still you do and say that it is the right thing… NEVER it’s not the right thing. You create the worst for them and then you say that it was for good NO it was not you destroyed their dreams, hopes, plans. Dreams that you created, plans that you made and all the hopes that you gave them. You made them to be craved for you. You fill their life with all the gloomy feelings and still you be like that I did it for the right of US then you are wrong because you did it for your own good not the other person.
If you are making a relationship then you should keep it for forever and if you cannot then you have no right to start a thing which you cannot give a future or a proper ending…..
MOVE ON it’s not easy to move on I think it’s the most difficult thing to do sometimes you feel like stuck you want to die but this is not the end of the story and this should not be the end of the story. Sometimes you even have no idea what’s going on in your life the mess he or she created becomes a silent killer that keep you stabbing that keep you lifeless keep you crying and moaning with grief… But on the other side that person thinks that he or she will be alright as him or her because it is damn easy for them. They justify their self’s to the extent where they think that they did the right and they are not the culprits but the sweet angels from heavens and in fact they are devils from hell playing with innocent souls and hearts.
To be honest we cannot understand or feel the pain of others as we are not going through the situations which they are facing, the thing which even does not matter to us are the whole world of someone and what if you took all the world of someone and set it to fire to become ashes…..
To say that EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT is just an illusion because nothing will be alright you just become braze faced or use to it nothing can be alright nothing. There are no solutions to the problems you just get distracted or find distractions and in the end whatever is left behind you take as a thanks giving as you do not have any other option.
To cry for someone is not a bad thing but to cry for the one who made you cry is the worst catastrophizer, and most of the time we understand it that much late and create many hurdles for
our own self.
Everyone will say that you are living a good life a toxic person left you now your life is like a filtered pure water IT KILLS!!!!!!
But in the end show must go on and it will go on as you have to live the life you are allocated by hook or by crook…………
Someone created the possible worst and after that if you are doing good to others healing others when you are totally injured inside it's not that person who made you to do this by leaving NO NEVER EVER it's YOU my dear the real you the brave on who took all the scattered, shattered, ruined and wrecked things in the best possible manner.
BECAUSE A TOXIC PERSON A DEVASTATOR CAN NOT BRING POSITIVITY ITS YOU AND TOTALLY YOU.
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This is a good post friend, you have a great vision of world

thank you sir :)

Some people have to leave your life to create space for better people to walk in.

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