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## The reason women "must" have stable jobs before marriage
Having a stable economy is one factor that reduces your attractiveness and can push your husband away from you without being aware of it. Why is that? A young person like me is thinking about this issue, how is your future? How will you live?
I strongly advise you not to get married as soon as you can not find a job. This is not simply about having your boyfriend or your parents' attention, it is because of your own happiness.

Your boyfriend has a stable job and loves you too. He really wants to marry you and believes that he will care for you. I have no doubt about his heart now. However, when you get married then there are many problems.

Getting someone you love is one thing, but having your loved one or not is another matter. Having a stable economy is one factor that reduces your attractiveness and can push your husband away from you without being aware of it. Why is that? I would like to explain briefly to you.
First, you have to be beautiful women, because men love with eyes. You may not have the beauty of a saltwater bird, but you have to know how beautiful it is. And to be beautiful you have money: money to buy clothes, buy cosmetics, buy perfume, buy underwear, buy pajamas ... These are not where you money. If you have not made money then you have to ask her husband. And then there is nothing unexpected, while surprise is a factor that makes you attractive.

Also, do not make money what you also have to ask her husband, come up with what you want to buy, or even small deficit in the amount of money given to the norm, it is difficult to manage. Therefore, it is best to have a job, earn a steady amount of money, maybe not much, but not too dependent on your husband.

Maybe you will say, I do not need to be beautiful, so far I have to do so, he still loves me. If you think so innocently, because he loves you at the moment you are most beautiful. When married, how many worries, will make women's beauty rapidly deteriorate if not care to keep. As you grow older, you can see how beautiful, beautiful young women can be attractive to your husband.

For some women, a man with a wife is very attractive, especially as good as your boyfriend you said. Not many girls are willing to roll on the man, making them even want to be faithful to hard to stand. So the only way women know how to keep their husbands.

You also need money to do the things you want to make yourself more attractive but want to keep secret with her husband like flower arrangements, cooking, dancing ...

Another problem when you have not had a job, have not earned money is gradually your husband will find you dependent on him. Then it will be time for him to respect you, even if you are his burden. Then the family's happiness began to crack.

For just a few reasons, I think you also need to think about finding a job before getting married. Hope my advice will be helpful to you.
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