How to deal with this kind of relationship?

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The world is full of nice people, so don't get me wrong if it sounds a little crazy or if you talk too many negative things.

But the fact is that there are people in our lives who gain a lot of access to us.

Let me paint you like this: it is the person with whom you enter a conversation, that you could start by flattering her by her disarmed charms. Then, before you know it, begins a sort of rant about a subject at odds, but behold, he agrees with them, even if the head and heart say: No, you can't! You quickly learn that your approach to yourself is not to know yourself, to pull the breeze or to share in yourself, but you have an agenda, and you play a strategic role in it; You're a toy in your manipulation. Against such a person is a loser, because such a person with such and such agenda has already made the reflections on how you or I will be your conquest.

This cooperation isn't about the relationship.

This cooperation is about their impact.

There are no inviting discussions just to identify with you, to that sort of individual. You are not keen on network, support or help. They won't be straightforward with you about yourself, and you won't be so keen on what you genuinely (however stupidly) uncover about yourself. Be that as it may, some are exceedingly qualified and appear to be mindful and intrigued. However, it crumbles that is utilized specifically; These individuals couldn't care less about character-they make them their leverage on the off chance that they coordinate them.

He's a person we all know. You're the kind of person who wants us to know what you can do to me. There always seems to be a final goal or an agenda with that kind of person. Because this type of person plays the role of the manager very effectively, they are often found in leadership positions but do not carry the lines of the true leader because their purpose is exploitation. Yes, of course, they will cover your exploitation of you and me in the need to do something good in the name of an organization, or worse, blaspheming God's name by saying that you are fulfilling the will of God (yes, it is a form of spiritual abuse there).

What do we do with this kind of relationship?

We avoid such interactions, but when they are realized, we must be careful to pay attention to what we say and be doubly cautious with what we agree. I hope you will disappoint this kind of person, but don't let the front fight feel guilty.

If you confront them, don't expect me to be well done. People like this despise honesty, and their pride despises the calmness we bring to disagreement. You will find them and increase your bets.

With such a person, as Jesus said, you must be as wise as a serpent and as innocent as a dove.

I consider a person to be safe and trustworthy if she does not require anything from me. Relationships work better if we surrender voluntarily, not because we are controlled.

Why do we apologize to the people who come into our lives and do some of the following?

-often make assumptions, do not check with us because they care so little;

-Take us for granted not taking into account our needs;

-to draw attention to our behavior when we decide something that we disagree with;

-ask small favors that are always larger than originally imply;

-Marketable offers elegant (things we do not want or need) in exchange for things that value;

-Do not forget to waste our time for the family (even not with sugar-coated excuses);

-We will interact with someone else for Something important, that is, it interrupts.