Are you being bullied?? Learn how to deal with it.

From my point of view bullying is a social crime and the offenders should be punished for committing the crime:

DEFINITION OF BULLYING
To deliberately frighten or upset someone who is smaller or weaker than you, especially to make them do something you want.

WHO IS A BULLY??
A bully is someone who deliberately frightens or upsets a person who is smaller or weaker than them.

TYPES OF BULLYING
1.Cyber bullying
This is a situation where people are being bullied online or on the internet.
2.Verbal bullying
This is bullying in form of insults and other verbal ways.
3.Social bullying
This is one of the most common ways of bullying, It can be in form of using social popularity to oppress people or to make them do things you want.
4.Physical bullying
This is the most common and it involves bullying with aggression, it involves hitting, punching, kicking and more.

CAUSES OF BULLYING
-Being too timid.
-Being unable to stand for yourself.
-Lack of self confidence.
-Inferiority complex

If you are a victim of bullying and you have one of the characteristic mentioned above, try working on them, that should be your first step.

HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLYING
1.Report to a higher authority

When you're being bullied, the first step to take is to report to an adult or an authority. Depending on the location, if you are in a school, the first thing to do when being bullied is to report to a teacher in school or report to the school's authority.

2.STAND UP TO THE BULLY

Standing up to the bully does not necessarily mean fighting the bully. It can be in form of using the phrase "LEAVE ME ALONE" or "STEP OFF". But you have to say these phrases with things or reasons backing them . For example you could say "leave me alone because I'm not your punching bag, I have rights too, I'm a human being remember, I don't know what happened to you but please do not put it on me". By doing this you would not only chase the bully away but you could even make the bully to stop being a bully. But before you take this step, make sure you have already reported to a higher authority.

REMEMBER THAT NOBODY WAS BORN A BULLY, SOMETHING MUST HAVE STIRRED UP THE ACT OF BULLYING IN HIM/HER, SO DO YOUR BEST TO TRY TO CHANGE THEM BEFORE DISCARDING THEM .
EVEN THOUGH YOU'RE NOT A VICTIM OF BULLYING, IF YOU SEE THE PREPOSTEROUS ACT TAKING PLACE IN YOUR AREA, YOU SHOULD NOT HESITATE TO REPORT OR HANDLE IT YOURSELF IF YOU CAN, BECAUSE YOU MAY JUST SAVE A LIFE WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING.

THANKS FOR READING..!!