Same here miss Shane. I don't have patience these days. Probably coz of too much stress. In times like these, I take a moment to contemplate and pray. Somehow, the burden is always lessened after praying.

As for your question, some really choose to stay. But as for me, I just know that true love is spontaneous, it doesn't need to be forced. And if I ever have to force myself to someone, I'd rather let go. Choosing (to love) yourself is not selfish, it is necessary.

Whatever it is you're going through right now, I hope you find peace and solace soon.