Can't lie, people have more patience with me and generally are nicer to me since I blossomed into a decent looking fella. They assume intelligence that may or may not be there. I really think it's hate that makes these incels ugly. I mean Elliot Rodgers wasn't a horribly deformed kid, if he had owned it and used his aggression for love rather than resentment, he probably could have landed a half decent girl. I think a lot of the problem resolves around unrealistic expectations, and misguided emotions. But what do I know, I'm pretty.