What is Ideally a Center in the Life of Someone?

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Now you understand, no, why isn't focusing your life effective? Therefore, according to Stephen Covey, we need to change the focus of our lives.

Covey explained that ideally we focus on living on principles (natural / scientific law).

But, what is the reason?

The principle is the law that governs the universe including society and individuals. Make decisions that are in accordance with the principle of saving someone from misery.

For example, we understand that one of the principles of self-development and growth is that the process of self-development involves pain. Self-development always passes through a painful stage.

Well, people who want to develop themselves but are not willing to go through a painful process can conclude that the person has denied the principle of development. As a result, because of denying the principle of development, the person did not even develop.

Another example, people in ancient times thought that a solar eclipse occurred because the sun was swallowed by a giant. And, people who are pregnant are required to hide under the bed.

The explanation of the emergence of such a solar eclipse is not in accordance with the principle / scientific. And, therefore, produce actions that are also unscientific (pregnant people must hide under the bed).

Finally, unscientific actions / not in accordance with these principles actually make the pregnant woman threatened with danger (for example, because forcing herself to hide under the bed, the mother actually fell ill).

Advantages of focusing on life on principle

As I explained above, focusing lives on the principle of providing benefits to us, that is, we are saved from misleading attitudes, actions and decisions. Besides these benefits, there are other benefits that we will get when we focus our lives on principles.

What is that?

By centering on principles, we can balance various aspects of our lives. This is because, we can use the principle to achieve our goals.

In life, we have different goals according to aspects of our lives that are also different.

As family members, we have the goal of making families happy, making our families harmonious, sharing love, love and attention. As a partner, we aim to live harmoniously and happily with our partners. As a religion, we aim to gain spiritual enlightenment.

Sometimes, there is a clash between one aspect and another and we are faced with a difficult choice: choosing one aspect or another; choose family or partner, for example.

Now, by utilizing the principle, we can choose both; we don't have to choose one and put aside the other.