Blabber mouth generation

I struggle to bite my tongue sometimes. I’m generally a 'live and let live kind of guy' however I do despair at the direction of future generations. Today I was flicking through the news feed on my phone and came across the following headline:

Rob Kardashian exposes Blac Chyna’s private parts in Instagram photo… during cheating rant

I’ll confess I didn’t know either of these Z-list celebrities before today. I figured the Rob guy was related to the Kardashian clan in some form. But what got me was the headline. So I delved a little deeper. More disconcerting to me than the cheating and the vagina Instagram pics, was that he thought that anyone actually gave a shit. I thought Instagram was about pictures. This guy wrote War and Peace on his page about the woes of his relationship.

And this is the problem with this blabbermouth generation.

No-one cares

I was once watching an MMA podcast and the host gave advice that men like Rob might find resourceful. If you are a guy, no-one cares about your troubles. No-one.

“What qualifies a man; suffering. You have one job as a man. Shoulder your burdens without complaint…. You know what your problems are, and no-one else cares.”

(Knuckle-Up)

The school of thought goes something like this;

Your friends don’t care. There is a reason why Kendrick Lamar wrote “Bitch don’t kill my vibe.” Your friends don’t need you ruining a good night with some moaning shit.

Your significant other doesn’t care. She (or he) only cares to the degree that it will affect them. If they are the cause of your woes – well… then they really don’t give a shit.

Your mum…. Yes. She may care. Your mother is literally the only person that cares. And even then it’s probably out of habit. If she searched her soul it is probably screaming, "when is this child gonna grow a pair of balls, ‘be a man’ and stop coming to me expecting me to keep wiping the snot off his nose!!"

Not even your kids care. They simply want you to be a dad.

Little girl

Speaking of being a father, I read this Rob guy has a child by this Chyna chick. It blows my mind. How can a man be so deep in his little girl feeling, that he doesn’t think how posting a picture of her mother’s pussy on Instagram might affect his little girl when she grows up?

Smh…

Sucker for love

There was a time when this would have been looked at as just another ‘john’ falling victim to a long con. The 'mark' would have kept that quiet, licked their wounds and maybe learned from their mistake. Not today. Today, it gets broadcast over the internet for social notoriety.

However Rob is not Kim or Khloe. He will not get men cueing around the block to be that shoulder to cry on. He will get more Chyna’s that realise he is STILL a sucker for love. He will get more men making a cuckold of him then trying to extort him for the privilege.

I'm not advocating men be Neanderthals. Show your compassion. Show your love. But leave them emotions for your own time of reflection inside. It’s a cold world outside.