Patience is not holding back anger, but eliminating anger

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Patience is not holding back anger, but eliminating anger

One thing I want to express for you, or for anyone who is currently upset with resentment and anger like you. Bahwasannya "patience is not only holding back anger, but eliminate anger".

Because if you only hold back anger, your heart will certainly flare up with regret and hatred that continues to take root.

However, when you choose to eliminate it, it means that you must be truly loyal and willing to forgive.

Difficult? It Will Be Very Difficult, Because That Is Why The Gift Of Heaven's Peace

Yes, but don't think that being patient and calming your heart to not be angry is easy, of course it's very difficult, because that's why you have to be able to practice and keep practicing.

How? that is by continuing to rotate all the good memories about it, because usually all one's goodness is erased so perfectly by a little mistake.

Try to remember again how well he used to be, how sincere he was before making a mistake, and do not continue to focus on his mistakes, because that is the way that Satan does not keep telling your ego to be heard.

It Is Not Easy To Resist For Not Anger To The One Who Hurts, But Learn To Be Forgiving

Struggle O my best friend, and yes indeed it is not easy to resist not being angry with him who hurts, to him who does not do justice to us, but learn to be forgiving.

You must be able to fight against your resentment, this is really a test for you, this is a way so you can train your sabbath better, then don't lose to your anger, prove that you are able to calm your heart before God.

There Is No Point To Be Angry Against A Man Who Hurts, Because The Anger Will Increasingly Shiver Our Hearts With Revenge

After all there is no point in being angry with him for hurting you, because if in God's eyes he is guilty and does not do justice to you, believe him he will also get a reward from God, even if you do not anger him.

And, you also have to know one thing, that the more you get angry, the more you emotion with it, the more you don't accept it with an attitude that you think is not good, then it will definitely shiver your heart with revenge.

Let go of all regrets, aren't you going to be more calm when you let go of something that burdens you?

So just let go of all regrets perfectly, if it really can't subside instantly then slowly, that is by continuing to stay still and don't focus on the mistakes.

Aren't you going to be calmer when you let go of something that weighs on you? then try to let it go even though you have to fight the pain of trying to be patient.

Try to make peace with your ego, because the more you indulge it the more wet your heart will be with anger

In essence, try to make peace with your ego, try to calm your heart by continuing to be kind to him, although it is very unlikely for you to look at him either.

You disappointed? yes, everyone will feel that way when you are there, but you have to be different from the others, you have to be graceful with patience, you have to be good at controlling your emotions.

Be willing to forgive, because the more you spoil your ego and anger, of course your heart will get wet with anger, and your revenge will never subside until any time.

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