Very reasonable and realistic concerns being raised on this post. Because most people who have issues with being in love are highly affected by the issues you have raised, especially the fact that they haven't mapped out the 'space' as it were for the lover, and so there are cases where the lover has to compete for a place, a comfortable and large enough place in the heart of that person they love, which to them should be a sign of love.. Fact.
-@yowanetwork