The Phobia of Being Alone

in blog •  2 years ago


What's up Guys, i have a good thing that's good to share this time. It's about Being Alone. Some people think of “being alone” as a bad thing. It either means you’re anti-social, or unwanted, neither of which are a good position to be in. But actually, being alone isn’t’ necessarily a bad thing, as there are a handful of benefits that emerge once you learn to embrace solitude.

I can say, once you learn to enjoy being alone, you’re going to grow as a person.
These things might happen to your life when you start to enjoy being alone.

  1. You’ll Enjoy Your Relationships Even More.
    When you spend time alone on a regular basis, and eventually start to enjoy being alone, you’ll come to find that you also enjoy your relationships with other people even more. And that’s because the time spent alone gives you a greater appreciation for yourself. But it also let’s you appreciate all the great things that come from your relationships with other people, most of which you were oblivious to before.

  2. You’ll get a Break From Constantly Trying to Keep Other People Happy.
    Life is filled with relationships, and most relationships only last when both people are kept happy. And that can turn into a draining job depending who that relationship is with. Now, this does’t only apply to personal relationships, but every kind of relationship. Once you’re alone, the only person’s happiness you have to worry about in that moment, is your own. You can treat yourself to thing that makes you happy, but may have upset someone else.

  3. You Won’t Have to Apologize For Anything.
    When you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll quickly see that solitude means you don’t have to keep apologizing for what you’ve done. So often, we do things that end up upsetting other people, or hurting someone else’s feelings, and then have to quickly apologize for it.
    But when you’re alone, you don’t have to apologize for anything. And that takes a lot of pressure out of most situations. You get to stop second guessing everything you say, or every move you make because you’re afraid someone is going to be offended, or saddened, and angered.

So, that's it guys... hope this post can change our mind about being alone.
Thank you for reading and see you next time.

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