Improve your relationship with your child. Save him from frustration and destruction

In today's world, the lifestyles are changing. In such a situation the relationships and interaction between man to man are also changing. But some relationships never change. The relation of a mother and a child is such a relation. But for a busy or working parent things are not the same.
Mother not only gives birth to a child but also raises it with affection and order. She is not only a pillar of her child's' life also a pioneer. Only she can build her child's future. But in a busy and complicated war, the interactions are breaking and the frustration and puberty problems are upbringing in the mind of today's children. Parents can help their children than any other people.

Be a friend:

The most effective way to your child's mind is the friendship. Let him express about anything he likes or dislikes. Let him share his feelings and sometimes you share your feelings with your child. Your child will learn to value others feelings.

Be a caretaker:

Know the want of your child and make him realize that you do care. Make him realize what you feel about him.

Be a guide:

When you see your child tensed or changed behavioUr. Ask him questions. Make him realize you are always there for him. Know his problems. Help him out and show him way. Always show him logic behind your decisions. Maybe he also have his own logic. Evaluate them together. The best way can be chosen by both of you.

Be a moral adviser:

Always make your child follow the best path and honest path in life. If your child is morally strong no negativity can capture his soul. Never tell a lie in front of your child. Build moral values in his mind from his childhood.

Be sympathetic:

Never leave your child alone at his bad time. Never scoll him at his bad time. Once he controls his feelings by himself, he will never open his mind to you. He will build his own world. Be in his world.

Be a companion:

Make plans with your child. Let your child bloom. Plan surprise parties, vacations, social work with your child. Be with him, he will be with you.

Make him responsible:

Sometimes leave some responsibility for your child. It can be a birthday party management, a booking of a Hotel room or restaurants, even cleaning the house for any party. If you make him responsible he will learn to think about others.

Let him decide:

Never force your child for anything. If he has another idea let him do in some cases. If he fails he will realise your experience and admire. And as a long run he will learn from his mistakes. If you taught him honesty and morality then he will never fall.

Don't forget to surprise your child. He perhaps awaits for your extra attention, makes him feel special.

In a busy day for some parents it becomes tough to give accompany to their children.
But your child deserves at least 1 hour a day and 1 day of a week from you. Loneliness drives him to the darkness. Your psychological support can help your child to be a successful human being not a stray.