HOW TO IMPROVE THE SELF-ASSESSMENT OF A CHILD?

Each person has an image of his "I". The so-called “I” is formed from the very birth of a child. What it will be normal or understated in the first place depends on the attitude of the parents to the child and only then the people around them. The child grows and slowly he begins to think about who he is and what he is like a man.

If they laugh at the child, they criticize him and constantly accuse him, and there is no moral support from the parents, the child has low self-esteem. He begins to think that he is worse than others. A person with such self-esteem is none other than a victim who is sure that any negative attitude towards him is absolutely deserved, because he is “worse than the others.” And if he is worse, it means that he is simply unworthy of a different attitude. In life, he deserves a little of it all that is left after the beautiful, talented and intelligent ...

Do you want your child to grow up like that person? Not. Of course! Therefore, if your child has no friends or for some reason he refuses to go to kindergarten or school and he considers himself worse than others, then something urgently needs to be done. It is necessary to raise the child's self-esteem.

If your child has physical disabilities children to him naturally will not be merciful. If adults see a complete person, they can call him a person with excess weight. children will not do that. Most likely, they just say "fat." And how to protect your child from a bad relationship and make him understand that no matter how he looks, no one has the right to insult him.

All people are not perfect. Everyone has some flaw. If, for example, your child is full, and children have begun to tease him for his fullness. Try to talk with him like this - First, explain to your child the meaning of the parts of the body. Say that legs are needed to jump, walk and run, hands to touch, take and do the work the person needs, eyes to see, ears to hear, etc. And how they will track it down secondary If a person's eyes are beautiful, but they do not see, there is no joy or benefit from them.

Also try to teach your child how to respond correctly. With prepared answers to the "teasers", the baby feels confident and more protected.

Oddly enough, but the shortcomings from which the child sometimes suffers so much and which are far from always can be corrected, you can simply hide it. I'll tell you the real case.

One girl was teased that she was fat and now it was time for her to go to school. In order for her to feel more confident, her mother bought her what all the girls dream so much about - at that time they were fakes from a cartoon. She bought her a fake bag and a dress. When she came to the line, no one else said that she was fat. The kids just noticed how cool she was wearing. Teach your child to hide their shortcomings and be a popular person. The more popular a child is among his peers, naturally the more friends he will have, the easier and better he will learn.

But for popularity, it is not enough to be well dressed, you also need to be able to do something better than the rest and of course talk better than most. Behind the speakers reach even the children. Teach your little one to talk correctly and intelligently.

Also teach your baby to say "no". People who have their own opinions and can say no are also very popular. Finally, I just want to say that be more attentive to your child not only from the physical side. He is healthy and how he eats. Who else but you should become the spiritual mentor to your child in this difficult life path? If you find the weak points of the child - do everything to strengthen them. Increase his self-esteem and spiritual growth.