THE LIFE HACK CHALLENGE

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Today, I planned on talking about Ambivert and Friendship but during my writing on the Life hack challenge brought up by @dragosroua which is really nice by the way, some of my friends started asking questions about the topic and how they can determine if they are ambiverts or not, so i decided to share the awareness of knowing whether you are ambiverted.

Most people have been led to believe that they either belong to one of this two category: Introvert or Extrovert kind of being but after observing themselves, they tend to see that they portray some of the traits of the two categories of behavior, some days they are happy and enjoy the company of others while other days they just marry their daily business and definitely just want to be alone and not mingle. Well, i'll love to bring you to the notice that you can definitely be a little bit of both and those in that category are called Ambiverts. In this little description, you tend to know where you fit in.

BEING AMBIVERTED

  1. Generally, you’re always happy to meet new people, but you’ll probably be uncomfortable if you have to do it without any of your existing friends with you.

  2. When a topic of interest comes up in a conversation, you’re more than happy to talk in great detail about it but as soon as that’s done, you’ll happily sit listening to the conversation without saying another word.
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  3. Spending too much time with other people can be exhausting.

  4. Your calm, controlled professional self feels like a very different person to the one your friends see.

  5. Asserting yourself is tricky in many situations. Though when you really try, you nail it.

  6. You can often go out and have hours of fun being the life of the party, but suddenly find that your energy has dropped, and all you really want to do is go home.

  7. When you see things written about being an introvert, you start to relate…but then discover that you relate to the extrovert ones as well.

  8. In fact, your friends disagreeing about whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert is probably a very good sign you’re an ambivert.

  9. Small talk is something that annoys you, because while you can do it, there are instances when it feels a bit insincere.

  10. Some weekends, you just need to spend some time hanging out on your own.
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  11. Too much time spent alone can leave you a bit downcast, and then you’re concerned that it’s not very productive.

  12. And some of the best weekends of your life have been when you didn’t go home for three days.

  13. Thinking before you speak isn’t a problem for you (most of the time). Yet you still say some dumb things occasionally.

  14. You have a tendency to balance out whoever you’re with – if you’re with someone loud, you’ll be quieter. If they’re quiet, you’ll compensate for that.

  15. You’re known to be quite intuitive and good at picking up signals that other people can miss.

  16. Often, you just find yourself observing what’s happening around you. And at other times, you’ll be getting involved in the moment even if that does involve dancing.

So in the right context, you love attention, but more often than not, you don’t want to be the person everyone is looking at. Now, if you can’t figure out whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert, have you ever thought maybe it’s because you’re actually an ambivert!

Now my Life Hack question to you is this: "Are You an Ambivert"? and don't forget to upvote this write up if it helped in any way and you can resteem it to whoever you feel might need it.
Your comments, suggestions, additions and questions are welcome.

PS: If you happen to like this writing, then believe me, you need to follow the JUNE LIFE HACK CHALLENGE by @dragosroua and you can also participate in the contest.

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wow. this is awesome. i never knew this exists. i can relate so well with this. more like divergents...lol

great post and deep insight

Nice stuff! I think I’m introvert most of the time but I’m more extroverted than my hubby who hates parties and prefers reading books. I also feel quite extroverted online haha.

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Thanks. This shows that you Ambiverted

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