TEACHING FINANCIAL OWN CHILDREN SINCE EARLY

Dear steemian friend, today I want to share with you about saving money.

The habit is a long process that is practiced and can not be done instantly.

Every child's wishes must be obtained by effort, such as to buy toys or books that children want, then they must collect rupiah coins that are converted according to the lev.

el of difficulty of work done. The more difficult the more coins they receive.

And every night or at least every weekend they will calculate the earnings of their work.

Even if the child wants to recreate us a family will budget the budget according to the budget of recreation purposes, so they really feel that what they buy, they rent, they have, they enjoy is the result of their own effort with the help of subsidies from his parents if the numbers are too high for them to reach.

So indirectly children since childhood have learned to count logically mathematically (without having to learn mathematics), according to importance and requirement.

Including if he plans to buy the goods they want to buy or go where they want to visit they will negotiate with his brother and with us his parents.

Well ... if it turns out the budget place or destination they go is too expensive to reach, then we as parents will provide additional subsidies for them.

Some parents consider this to be a form of cruelty or exploitation, but this is a real form of learning for children about the real life they will face rather than an exploit, As the saying goes, do not leave a legacy of treasures for your child but leave behind the legacy of knowledge and abilities to get the treasures for your children.

Sy never thought this was an exploitation or cruelty, because I did not take advantage of them at all, but it was they who would benefit from the life-learning model.

Because I have seen much evidence of how many parents provide facilities and facilities for their children because their parents feel capable, and when their parents are gone, their children live in disarray because they do not have the same skills they used to have their parents.

And these people are my very own close friends whose parents were people who forgot to pass on their successful experiences to their children.

"I do not want my child to experience the difficulties I used to experience during my childhood" is what these parents say.

Yet if we examine the logic, precisely the difficulties - for the sake of the difficulties that had been experienced by his parents that has made them become successful people like today. So according to if we want our children to succeed then teach how to live a success and not give the ease of success result that we achieve. Just like animals who teach their children from childhood to learn to hunt for prey or eat for their future survival.

There is another who feels no heart to do this to his son, but let's come back to think of it, we can be upset if someday when we no children we do not have the ability to earn a living for himself or for the family ..

So this is the most correct way to get the child to live in the future.
Hopefully this article is useful for all steemian friends.