Sexuality and attractiveness - my opinion about the topic.
Looking for confirmation of your own attraction outside the union, is balancing on the border of treason.
If you do not feel attractive and appealing to your partner (or he does not seem like you), another important pillar of your relationship is starting to falter.
From innocent flirting, to sexual fantasies about others, and then treason - the road is shorter than you think.
It is worth to take care of the hot atmosphere in the bedroom, to be attractive to your partner, to foster romance and passion periodically, and not just once a year for the wedding anniversary ...
If you have a problem with your sexuality (eg, you do not feel attractive after the birth of a baby), do not blame your partner for being unwell!
First of all, you are responsible for your appearance and your well-being, and you have the power and the opportunity to change them (if they do not suit you).
And secondly, even if you do not like yourself, the partner can still see in you the wonderful woman who he fall in love with, and even if she has a few more pounds - it does not matter to him as long as she is as gorgeous and tender as she used to be!
I have many friends who after the birth of children did not look in the mirror constantly deepening their mood, but sharply took over and covered other living things.
As well as those without children who think that time has passed, they have chosen a better way or positive thinking about themselves.
People who see evil are sadly attracted to evil also by our thoughts.
So the breast forward dear ladies we are beautiful and if we have a cool guy it's worth looking at him in a better light and your world will be more beautiful.
Source of the photos - pixabay
That is a hard topic...and good to discuss. It seems like it could be a NP hard problem to determine why/how an attraction between a couple is changing. I think looking at my own experiences, attraction between me and my partners is always in a state of flux. It also sometimes feels futile to try and control it, but always necessary to do your best and work with it.
I really love this quote from a weepies song...
For me, it speaks that love is something you didn't purposely create, it just came on up of it's own desire. And like all weeds, you can't force it, you can't fight, it requires some amount of 'hands off' approach to flourish. Yet, it's your trust(in yourself? in the universe? in your partner...although that could mean different things to different people) that grows your love.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Margaret!
Thank you for you comment. I like your opinion. It is so true "that love is something you didn't purposely create"
Have a full of love day ;)
This one got to me! superb!! I'll make sure my wife read this. this post stimulates my love for her, and made me remember our weeding day, she's so beautiful.
All happiness and positive energy flow from your beautiful wife. Thank you for your lovely comment. I really appreciate. Greetings to your beautiful wife ;)
Thank you @margaretwise, she was so happy reading your comment about her.
Oh so nice ;) I am so happy. Is she on the steemit ?
Am glad that you're happy for my lovely wife, she is not yet in steemit but she enjoy everything we do here more especially my lovely friends and their posts, hopefully will join us here soon.
More love from my family.
Thank you for your kind comment and your family picture :-) congratulations of your new baby. So cute. We don't have babies yet with @gregbit 😁 But we have two cute dogs 🐶. I posted about them earlier 😄 God bless you and the flowers for your lovely wife 🌹
Thank you, deeply inside my heart; I've really found a dependable friend in you, your family is blessed! Thanks for the flowers, please can I have the post-link to your two cute dogs?
Uff a lot of searching but I found it. I hope you would like it. One of my first posts 😁
https://steemit.com/dog/@margaretwise/my-dog-s-life-gabi-and-misia-sisters-my-dogs-in-action
That's hard topic but it's necessary to talk about it, Thanks!
Thank you that you like it.
Great post about a tough topic! You're so right and I guess the more and more people forget about this, consumed also by their jobs and to much free time activity, which can be stress as well! Thanks for sharing these wonderful thoughts with us, Margaret! Have a wonderful day!
Life on earth has its end so it is worth to go forward with a positive thought. It is my idea about it. Thank you fro your great comment, kind words and always support. :) Have a outstanding day :)
Tough topic but well done!
Thank you ;)
i like your post, thanks for sharing
Thank you for reading and your kind support ;) I am glad you like it.
Great post and you are right. All you have to do if you're a woman is the equivalent of a male attack and we're easy
That's way I posted my topic to improve that there is still the way to figure out better solution ;) Thank you for your comment ;)
Well, I came up with a solution I just posted, I hope you like it, "Tackler"
great topic, and fact of happen
Thank you ;)
yes, indeed :)
Great Post! Like It.
Thank you ;)