Can beauty be seen as a talent? Beauty a talent,let find out how.
Two years ago, I shared a story of a 29 year old guy whose younger sister put through MSC in London and secured him a good job using her connections from dating older and rich men.
He found out when he returned to Nigeria that he wasn't under any scholarship to London and didn't get his six figures job via merit. It was all done by his beautiful 21 year old sister.
Men never retires from the company of beautiful girls. It's almost trend now for young girls to have atleast one older or married man as boyfriend. These older men might not open doors, bring flowers or give heads but they are more generous with cash and kind gifts.
This culture has put ladies at the top line of social exposure and maturity. Being around men 10 years older and above, they get to learn a lot and rub off from the wisdom and riches.
Between the ages of 15 to 35, very beautiful ladies experience the social exposure of men 10 years older than them.
A socially active girl of 19 years is more socially matured and exposed than a socially active guy of 29 years.
However, no matter how socially active a lady is, this culture dictates that beautiful girls must go out of demand with time.
These older and richer men barely seek commitment with the beautiful girls they are dating. They will be done with you the moment they meet a younger and finer girl, because to them, it's all about the trills and fantasies.
I like social and smart ladies who possess the ability to convert love to currency. Money is the only element as important as love. They cancel each other out almost equally, therefore, one of the truest ways a guy can show love to a beautiful girl is by spending his money.
Beauty is like talent. It is there to help make life happy for you and for the people around you. If someone loves you only because you are beautiful, you should love him back only because he is rich. When you meet someone who truly loves you for who you are, then you can truly love him back but until then, whoever is dating you because you are beautiful or handsome should pay for your needs.
| image: Ayanda Tabethe