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RE: Is Love A Choice Or A Feeling?
Thank you! The feeling of attraction must be there originally; I wouldn't call this feeling love though. I mean what about arranged marriages back in the day. Some individuals felt NO attraction to each other. But a select few over the decades and years that past grew a deep respect and eventual love in that relationship. I think love comes with time, and is often confused with the butterfly feeling, that wild feeling that pumps through your veins.
Curious of your thoughts.
The initial feeling is simply attraction and without that then love won't ensue. People stay together for many reasons I guess, obligation, failure of other options, habit...Even love sometimes.
I think people over think it these days...It's pretty simple...If one feels that what they feel is love then it is. It's not for others to define and clarify it...Love is different for all of us.