Various Main Causes Someone Wants to Kill Yourself
Serious living problems sometimes make us want to give up on this life. The level of complexity of the problem and the mental resilience of everyone is different. Many people consider the problems they face more heavily than others, but when we look at a wide range of perspectives, there are many who face similar problems and are even heavier than themselves.
A person's response is different. Some are optimistic when they are overwhelmed with many problems. Some are pessimistic, feeling inadequate and feel their life is meaningless. This person's response is influenced by his mental resilience. Mental survival comes from the formation of a person's character. Just as when a person is raised in a warm, open and affectionate family, he will tend, not always - to face many problems, because he has the closest people who believe in him. However, it does not mean that people raised in families who have 'distant', cold and stiff, will be weak in the face of problems. Basically everyone has the instinct to survive in this world. It only depends on what one believes, if he believes that he will not be able, then his body will respond with apathetic thinking.
Your response to a problem greatly influences your character building in the future. A person's character is made up of the failures and successes he has experienced. Sometimes continuous failure and the number of rejections can make a person feel isolated. When feeling isolated, negative thoughts come up. Feeling worthless, comparing life with others, not to mention social pressures like bullying, will put you under stress. Stress that is not managed properly will cause a person to become depressed.
Depression leads someone to suicidal desires. Suicide is no longer a taboo thing. In 2005, there were 30,000 suicides in Indonesia.
- Depression
Depression is one of mental illness, but the symptoms are somewhat difficult to recognize or realize. Often a person realizes there's something wrong with him, but he does not know how to get out of trouble. Likewise, when a person is depressed and always closes, sometimes people think it is his personality, "he may be lazy," for example, or the assumption that he may be sad. Depression makes one think irrational, like 'no one loves him', 'life is always like this', or even 'life is not going to be affected if there is not me'. Such erroneous thoughts that depress people are reluctant to do something, do not even want to live any longer.
People who are depressed will become closed, so if someone has a symptom of suicide, the people around him will have trouble realizing it. We do not know how hard the problem is, what's on his mind