Here's where your mistake is; in this case right now and it would appear that you have had the same problem within the #Alliance... You're trying way too hard to make the actions/opinions/verbiage from one person mean that the entire community equals those actions/opinions/verbiage and that's neither true nor appropriate.

It would be a double standard to accept it when people demand and successfully convince supporters to yank support from me over

an outcry derived from an anti bid bot debate which incorporated GrumpyCat

While I provide an outcry over sexist verbiage.

To say I cannot make a reasonable association between someone and whom supports them while others do the same is hypocrisy plain and simple.