The envy. Learn how to handle it.

gil87 (39)in #blog • 9 years ago

Greetings to all the steemit community, this time I want to refer to a topic that causes discomfort and frustration in many people, this has caused significant losses in different magnitudes.

Today we live in a society that advances on a large scale and the differences between individuals generate feelings, among them ENVY, which at one time knocks the door of many to cause discomfort instead of inspiration. It is important to learn how to handle it from the angle you are in, either as the person who generates it, as the one who feels it, in either scenario in which you are, you should know that it is up to you to pass the tests that Are presented. In the first case if you stop to ask yourself why this happens to you or why they are so you will only waste time, you must interpret it in a positive way ie you are on the right path put a plug in your ears and leave there. In the second case take that person as an example and not as a competition if at this point you feel in a race that is against yourself and if you spend a minute thinking why these things happen to others and you are not only these Wasting time and opportunities. It is better to see them as options and take one of them or you will simply see as one and many more people achieve what is proposed and you still fail to take the first step, at this point I suggest you wake up because life happens in an open and close Of eyes and if you do not manage to leave that point the days will be exhausted and only you will end up while the others arrive where they want. Do not see the achievements of others as your defeats but as a way to follow or an opportunity to make it different and to be better but better than yourself.

Why does it exist? It is simply our nature to want to be the best, but right at this point it is where everything begins ... if right here, because if you want to be the best you must be for yourself no matter what they say or what others will do.

I try to be a positive and motivating person, I like that others see options, when they feel that ideas are exhausted is when more ways to achieve SUCCESS arise.