Is there any perfect definition when it comes to ideal wife and ideal husband?
I don’t think there is a perfect definition of ideal husband or ideal wife, but I think there are certain qualities that every person whether a wife or a husband should know. I strongly believe there should be some requirements in order to welcome a person into our lives.
Some say that marriage is a great way to be happy and it does reduce stress to some extent. Experts say married people are healthier than those who are single. They say relationship impacts in a positive way in terms of health. On the other hand, many people in the USA are not willing to get married due to various reasons, some of which are they think they may end up in a zone with lack of freedom, which is not true in all cases though.
However, what if thinkings are different for both people? A woman enters a man’s life with full of dreams that associates with love. She expects some surprises and gifts at earlier stages from her husband, and she wishes for an abundance of love from her husband. On the other hand, husband wishes for love but that may stay until he gets some work to do, which doesn’t mean he stopped loving. Sadly, I think two characters who get married may be really with different mentalities. No one is wrong or no one is correct.
Here comes with different answers to the problem, a husband is not a person who has to treat his wife as a princess but should be a person who should treat her as a woman who needs help when needed. A woman can seem to be so strong, but when struggles come, which if she thinks she cannot be able to accomplish by herself may think of some help from her husband. This does not mean she cannot do by herself but it does mean she needs support not for the actual problem but for the psychological pressure that she is bearing. A husband should be her best companion in all possible ways, especially during earlier days of marriage and during hard times.
An ideal wife is a person who gives a little freedom to her husband and takes care of him until the end of their lives. And she should support in each and every aspect with diplomacy. A wife is considered to be all in one who does many tasks at a time. In order to build a strong relationship between both, wife and husband both play a crucial role.
Few things I think couples should be aware of and should be doing. Embrace that you are married and help each other in all possible ways. Women have been heading towards success, regardless of obstacles. Therefore, I think don’t consider the same way as you think before. Love flourishes when both understand each other and rectify their negative points that associate with love. No one is perfect but trying to be an ideal husband for a wife or vice versa thrives the relationship forever.
I see good marriages as gifts from God. It takes hard work and consistency to keep such a gift pure, but it is so very worth it.
A little machism is in the begining of your post, there isnt good wifes because there isnt good husband, they are equally as you said
I have been married for 11 years, my wife and I can clubs the arguments in that time in one hand. We work at everything together and are still the best of friends. Yes admittedly it’s hard and yes you do have to work on it. But when it’s good it’s just good.
Love after marriage is much better before marriage to avoid problems and separation
This is the best definition of marriage I have ever read..
Good read. I think even those "ideals" play out different from couple to couple. Neither husband or wife are meant to be identical in what they can or can't do (obviously). Learning to honor the differences and show support is something that creates strong relationships.
I think a lot of times our instincts is to correct and mold each other into what we think is best but really for selfish reasons. When we learn to empower the other, it actually creates much greater potential for the relationship.
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Marriage is an equal partnership built on the trust and commitment of two imperfect people. It takes hard work to accomplish the goals of a good and successful marriage.
I am single but my opinion married people not happy life.because wife create many problems our life.i proof this I see. She wants all thing.she not thought husband what do.any problem she angery.
For me there's no such thing as an ideal wife or ideal husband, you just need to communicate, listen using both ears and heart. Make sure to always see the good things in your partner, let's not be fault finder. Then you'll have a harmonious relationship. Thank you for sharing this @dcryto !