How I managed to tackle with rude and arrogant people

We often face rude people either at workplace or family or maybe in a social life. But we somewhat feel wrong at that time, which results in a messed up relation, or you end up crying that you are even responsible for. Being a sensitive person, I often met with these kinds of people which would end up in negative consequences until last year. Therefore, I used to feel miserable and regret for what I have done to that small insult.

However, during this journey, I found out some of the most valuable things that actually worked for me, which I would like to share with you so that it may help you to deal with people with arrogant or rude mentalities.

The most important thing you should know is that when you are being insulted, it may not be your mistake, but rather it is his character who is insulting you. Yes, if it’s not you, he/she might offend another person with which he may gain some satisfaction. So, remember the fact that maximum insults are being done by the people who have the toxic character. If not just think like that. This way you can feel that mistake is not yours.

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Another point to consider is that people who try to insult you or try to be rude to you at constant rate all the time are those who may believe they are not good before you. Yes, when they feel insecure and jealous of you, they desire satisfaction, which comes when their words hurt you. So, there is nothing wrong with you to feel sorry about. We can see a maximum amount of this type of people all the time.

In order to cope with these people around you need to do certain things, which I will explain below. The powerful statement is "keep calm". Yes, because we often gravitate to react than to respond at this particular time. So, just take a deep breath and calmly respond to their rudeness. In this process you do not want to break the relationship with the person right, so be careful.

If these people even change their minds just say some relevant sentences such as “I appreciate the thought, but”. Creating a feeling that goes positively well is critical here. Say if your aunt is being rude at you or insulting you that you are earning less and her's son earn well, you could say, I appreciate your concern about my career, but I prefer work rather than money. This way your relationship will not be spoiled, and she may never ask you the same doubt.

But sometimes many things do not work, and we may end up in continues insults, this may happen because the person who insults you would never know how you are feeling about. Here you had better say them that you don’t like this conversation as it hurts my feeling and let them know that fact about it. This way you won’t be rude, and at the same time, your message will be delivered.

I believe these tips may help you because I know they worked for me. The primary key here is Keep Calm rather than reacting outrageously.