Years ago, I most likely felt as you did, the governments point of view (narrow-minded and selfish). I no longer think that way after spending almost two decades living in third world countries. If you want to know someone, walk a mile in his shoes (or sandals). Immigration to any country has become a nightmare of rules and regulations. There is no room for compassion. So folks do what they feel they have to do for their families. Is it wrong? To me, it is a very grey area...