Chapter 3: build attraction.

Many times, the target MM will soon be moved by our opening lines, but only one opening.

Generate a minute or even a few seconds of attraction to the MM. Even the transition stage DHV, can only make MM to me.

We have a little bit of admiration, and if it doesn't continue to increase the appeal in the subsequent stages, we can do that.

It will all go to waste, and that's what we're going to solve in chapter three: building attraction through convention.

1. Establish three stages of attraction - theory.

In human society, the building of relationships between people is seemingly random, random, you don't know.

What kind of person you will be friends with, what kind of woman you will be with and even if you are in a relationship,

But that's the way the human world is, and behind the surface of chaos there is often an order and a law, including people and people.

Relationships, especially between men and women, we finally find two people who can walk together, no matter what.

Long term relationship or short term relationship, two people always match each other on a big level, even you.

Random pick-up girl, you flip through your phone book, you can successfully follow the girl and your relationship.

You can't get out of this big plane, so what is this big layer? It is divided into two parts: external.

The world matches the internal world.

Let's start with the external world. The external world screening is whether the sexes are willing to choose each other.

The external world mainly consists of the following three reasons.

Element:

1. Wealth achievement: that is, the wealth created by the world through personal ability.

On two levels, material wealth and cultural wealth, the latter level is higher than the former.

1. Social status: this refers to the position of the social circle in the social pyramid in the middle and long term.

This position can be based on the recognition, cultural level and social resources of a person in his industry.

It's a comprehensive measure.

1. World experience: the breadth and depth of the cultures of different nations in different countries.

This foundation builds up the life fullness.

The external world screening mainly appears in our usual pick-up lines, when you come forward and a strange girl.

The screening process started when the conversation started, and in the next few texts and phone calls,

And the way it is screened is indirectly, not by saying it directly, but by saying.

The breadth of consciousness that is indirectly reflected in manners. The girl you talked to is outside.

The greater the gap in the world, the faster the screening process, and many times a few minutes of conversation will be resolved.

Decide if the girl will choose you. And the girl you can follow, you'll find out in the outside world.

The three levels are significantly lower than yours. The physical, psychological and social attributes of men and women determine women.

People choose men who are bigger than themselves in the outer world. Instead, men can choose women who are outside the world.

The world is smaller than itself.

After the first stage of the external world screening and matching, the establishment of the relationship between men and women will be successful.

Entering the second stage of screening, the screening here is the internal world screening. The internal world contains the following three aspects:

1. Personality depth: it refers to your self-examination ability and your level of understanding of your inner conflict.

1. Human consciousness: the depth of your understanding of human nature, and your feelings and thoughts about people.

Understand the depth of understanding.

1. Inner quality: it includes your self-esteem and the true qualities that are hidden in your personality.

The second phase of screening usually occurs in the following two scenarios: the first phase of the pickup and subsequent selection.

After that, you have a date with a girl or a social class in a stable social circle.

Almost, this determines that the outside world of the group is not very different, and the match is higher, at this time.

The second phase of screening will also begin, and this phase will typically involve multiple text messages and phone calls between you and the girl,

And the first few dates.

The second phase of screening is also indirect, as is the first stage of screening, and it is through your words.

Talk about acting indirectly, but this is the depth of your consciousness. We know the majority.

In the age group, girls are obviously more mature than boys, which is the inner world than boys of the same age.

Deep down, that's why many boys chase girls when they are young, no matter what they do, no matter how good they are,

But the other person won't choose your root cause. The second stage is the most interesting and confusing.

It is, in the second stage, that the conscious level is at a lower level than the person who is at a higher level than he is.

Conscious, for him, overhead is blue sky and white clouds, nothing else can be seen, the opposite consciousness is in?

The man at the top, his face is completely clear to him. That's why when an elder says you?

When you're not mature, you can't be aware of why he's saying it, except for guessing.

When you say this, you're going to want to see what phase of the bubble you're trying to attract, and you're doing the first two stages, right?

After the selection, we go to the third stage of screening, and the screening is more straightforward, usually seen.

What you can see and feel is directly perceived by your conscious level, and that is what bubble learning is based on.

That's why you have a variety of methods and techniques that teach you how to operate, teach you to internalize, and teach you to improve one?

Some narrow sense of mind. Because it can be perceived directly, it's going to be more intuitive than the first two,

Convenient and quick.
There are times when you can find a pick-up line, but you can't follow up on a date.

But in the end it failed, and you were faced with the girls who were obviously superior to you in the first two.

There's nothing you can do about it, and the technology and mindset that you're learning at this time is not going to help you go with such a girl.

Build relationships.

And the determining factor for a person's attractiveness and attractiveness is that in the first two aspects, it determines who we are.

The place in the world and the way we look and value in the eyes of women, and you are on the path of glamour.

The more you go up, the more attractive the woman you face, and you'll find the third stage of screening.

Becoming less and less important to you is not even necessary, and the first stage of screening is indirect but to you.

It becomes more and more visible, and these are clearly visible thanks to your ascension in the second stage.

1. Establishment of attractive practices - practices.

1. Education

An educated man is a real gentleman, and a man with an elegant manner is sure to get more women.

Attention.

Convention 1: when going to a restaurant, help her pull up the chair and wait for her to sit down and pull herself.

Chair, and say: please sit down.

Convention 2: when she gets on the bus, stand behind her and help her in front of the crowd, and in her.

When I got on the bus, I said, be careful.

Convention 3: when you get her into a taxi, you can't see the car before you leave because the driver and she will.

See your thoughtfulness in the rearview mirror.

2, romantic

Being romantic is the biggest drawback of all women, because we can only make her romantic for a minute.

Win her heart, whether she has a boyfriend or not.

For example, you can create romance by heart with any romantic method you can think of or can't think of.

The feeling, let her at this moment be confused by you. Once a woman is confused by you, she will remain confused until she gets up.

Your bed.

Convention 4: when you sing to her, you can replace xiao wei's name with her name and sing every song.

Look at her affectionately when you get her name. (one of the songs that must be sung when soaking in MM)

Convention 5: every time you travel with her, every mountain, every river, you can give them.

Name: this river is called predestination.

You can make her feel about you through the woman's thoughts.

What women think of you is what they feel about you. What do you want a woman to do to you?

The way you feel, you have to inspire her.

Convention 6: you can use a variety of means such as cold reading, such as: you say to her: do you want to know you are in.

What kind of person am I? She said: yes. Remember to pause for 10 seconds to create expectations and say: actually.

You are a very contented person, but this little satisfaction is not always available. She'll think you're not.

Get to know her.

Convention 7: when a woman tells you she likes rich men, you say: rich men are basically not flowers.

The heart is the body has the disease, you may get a lot of money, but he has a lot of entertainment, you just his life.

A small ornament in it.

Convention 8: the men you like are the kind of women who grab a lot of women and don't treat you at all.

A consistent man, do you want that love?

4, conspiracy

Simply put, it's your two secrets.

Custom 9: you call her nickname: ah stupid, she gives you the nickname: piglet.

Convention 10: only you two know one thing.

Don't be too nice to her.

A woman will only fall in love with the person she thinks she loves, and you have nothing to do with her. Too good for her, too much.

Tight, it will speed her away from you.

Practice 11: don't give her a gift, don't be polite to her, don't tell her I like you the first time,

Don't talk to her about I love you (except for TD) before you have an s bed.

1. Storytelling

Notice, we have to think before we tell any story, why do we tell this story, this one?

So what does the story say? Remember these two points we can start talking about.

Practice 12: when a netizen asks you to meet a few net friends, you can say: I was only in college.

I met a net friend. A roommate asked me to help her meet a netizen, and the roommate said, if the girl doesn't float.

You don't have to let me show up. It's yours. I think meeting net friend is very curious matter, I agree.

Later we met the netizen, she was very pretty, and then we had three meals together and went to the park. But it is bright

I feel that the female net friend likes me very much, although that female net friend is very good, but I was then a female friend.

Friend, besides she is the girl that the roommate likes, I certainly can't take the beauty of human. I didn't talk much,

The woman never contacted her roommate, but she always offered to email and call.

I rarely respond to anything, because I have to be responsible for my girlfriend. And finally because I was too kind,

I didn't say to the girl at first that we couldn't, so we hurt the girl's heart and roommate.

I fell out with me because of my misunderstanding and jealousy. To me, it is a terrible thing to see the net friend, because.

I saw only one time net friend lost a very good friend and also hurt a good girl's heart.
What's behind the story: 01: you're charming. 02: you're very special with your girlfriend. 03: you are very

Heavy friendship. 04: you are very kind. 05: you are not a casual observer.

7, suspense,

Just as we hear the key words when we hear the key words, we hear a very disappointing word: we want to know more about the future.

Please listen to the next decomposition. So there are a lot of reviews that we've looked at 100 episodes without getting bored, if you can use this.

The trick is to date the girl, and every time the date is over, the girl will want to see you again.

Rule 13: I used to love having a puppy, but I don't like it at all. You want to know why?

? I'll tell you when we meet again.

1. Push-pull technique

The push is to push the girl out, scold her, hit her, condemn her, laugh at her, pull her short, pull is.

Pull the girl in, compliment her, protect her, pay attention. The basic principle: pull, pull, push. You are in

When you praise her, you also hurt her. Push back or push back first.

Push-pull skills are not only verbal, but sometimes physical. For example: you take her hand,

And suddenly, she wants you to pull her hand again, and you don't pull it, and it multiplies her.

Expectations.

Custom 14: although you are very beautiful, but you do not do a bit of housework, I still like the virtuous woman.

(push back first)

Rule 15: your lashes are very long. Is that true? (push back first)

Practice 16: you say: your nails are fake. "It's true," she said. You say: I don't believe really.

A can be so beautiful. (push back first).

Practice 17: you suddenly hold her, then suddenly release her, then head to one side, and pretend to be still.

The way you think about it, it's better if she can take you on her own, if you can't, hold her in your arms for a while.

In it. (push, pull, push)

1. Role playing

Women are naturally fond of role-playing. When they watch Korean dramas, they regard themselves as the grey girls in the play.

Niang, hope to get the prince's love. This is with the woman's romance, the perceptual disposition is inseparable. Qiong precious jade,

Korean dramas have touched many women, and women like role-playing as men like the NBA, like games.

Remember, we can play a little dog, and of course we can make her a little turtle.

Convention 18: I had a dream last night. I dreamed that I would go to your house and I would be excited to see my parents-in-law.

I can't say it. You know what your parents say? She said: what? You say: your parents are really bad, I am the first.

One day at your house, your parents treated me with white rice and brown sugar, and I had diarrhea when I was dreaming.

Rule 19: when you're on the phone or you're chatting online, you can say, "you know what?

I am at home with a beautiful woman, and I cook and cook for her myself, and she is naked in me now.

It's on the bed. She said, no. You say: she is prettier than you, softer than you, never angry with me,

It's better than your body, better than your skin, and smarter than you, and often makes me laugh. She said: you think she is.

Okay, you're just fine with her. You say: she is my next door a little bitch, but I think she is still more than you.

Good.

10, misunderstanding

This is called playing hard to get, and it starts with the usual practice:

Practice 20: she says: I love children. You say: no, you want to have a baby with me so soon.

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Convention 21: for example, when something makes her hit you with her hand, you say: no, you're so fast.

Just pull up on me. You're too active.

Convention 22: for example, when she suddenly saw something horrible, she suddenly came into your arms and said, no.

It takes a lot of money to use this old-fashioned way.

1. Proud and funny.

Pride and wit attract beautiful women. The key is to create an atmosphere, a feeling, a kind of play with the girl.

Feeling. In a word, hit her casually, scold, laugh at her, and she will only like you more and more.

Convention 23: when she wants to look at your photos, you say: I'm handsome. I charge for my photos.

Oh.

Rule 24: she said to you: how is my body, fat or not? You say: it looks ok, but hold.

I don't know what happened. If you're willing to pay, I'll test it for you. Then turn your head back.

One side, then do your own thing. If she says: ok. Then you hold her up and then stretch out your hand and say: take it.

The money.

Rule 25: she says she has a good appetite. You say: you do not have the image of pig, but have.

The quality of the pig.

Convention 26: she was wearing a new dress and she was very proud to ask you: do you think I am beautiful?

You say: beautiful is beautiful, just too showy. Do you know what dress is most beautiful? She said: what

The sample? You say: women wear the most natural clothes to be the most beautiful.

1. Attention to detail

A lot of times, women complain that men are a lack of gentle animals. Is that true? maybe

It's just that men are different from women in their gentle ways, but smart men should be.

Some men who know how to decipher a woman's gentle password and catch her heart in time.

Practice 27: you say: the hair card that you wear today is very beautiful. She thought: how could this guy be so skinny?

Rule 28: while he was in a wheelchair and shopping with his girlfriend, his girlfriend had a crush on a dress.

Clothes can be bought not, because the clothes in their home also many, later decided not to buy. But the next day:

He said to her, I bought you a gift, and you must like it very much. The present was the one she saw yesterday.

A piece of clothing. Do you know how he did it? Number one: sneaking around the store.

Wrote down the phone number of the shop owner; Second: he called the clothing store to deliver the clothes to his home. Face a world

The man who is most attentive to you? Who won't?

1. Unpredictability.

That is to say, she and you are full of excitement and tension, never knowing what to do next,

Your attraction to her will multiply. ) don't ask her where she's going when she's shopping.

What do you do? Just lead her along with you.

Rule 29: when you give her the train ticket, hold it in the middle of the air with your ticket in hand. You are mysterious and you have a small band.

Smile: you must bring a smiling face when you come back. She said, ok. Finally you give her the ticket.

Get her into your world.

A lot of times, we want women to get into the areas we're good at, rather than being dragged into her field.

She likes singing, but you are not good at singing. You can take her to dance.

Let her know I'm a real dancer. She began to admire your dancing skills more and more. She adored you.

It starts with liking you.

1. Cat rope theory.

Just like you give a child a toy, always in front of his eyes, just don't give him, he will always grab, if.

You gave it to him, and he had no interest in you. We're going to use the cat-rope theory for women.

Gravity doubles.

Rule 31: you bought her a present, and you didn't give it to her, but don't make her angry.

Lose the pet rule.

All the people have lost their favorite things, if lost, the sense of recovery is.

Not very good. Now we are using this psychology of women. Let's do one case.

Practice 32: I met a woman three times, although she liked me very much, but she didn't come to my house. Due to the

The defensive mentality of the man was very serious, so it was useless for me to persuade. We meet at 7 PM,

At 10 PM in the park, I asked her to come to my house for a movie (the first temptation) and she said no. after

And I said I was hungry, I didn't eat, I wanted her to come home with me for dinner (the second temptation), she still didn't go,

I say half an hour is good (pseudo time limit), she also is adamantly negative. Then we went to the nearby street.

After a walk, I didn't find a restaurant I liked (stick to my frame). She asked me to send her.

Home, I said no, I'll take you home, and the landlord will lock the door, unless you let me stay with you, she said.

I can't. I said: either you take a taxi home, or you go home with me, you live in my house, I live on the roof.

She said no, you have to send me. Later, I said I'm starving and I don't even have a meal.

You are so cruel that I am not only hungry, but also I have no place to live in the night (to inspire a woman's maternal love),

You made me sad, and now I've got a lump in my throat, and I don't get my head back.

The car went. (stick to your frame); Then turn off the phone, wait for 5 minutes, turn on and receive her short.

Believe, say: you left me a person on the side of the road, you are cruel. And then, I've been quietly around.

Behind her, hug her. You're the one that got her back. The rest of the process is a little bit, because it's too much.

There's no technology.

All in all, the building of attraction is a stage in which the eight immortals cross the sea, and you are only at this stage, tight.

Grasp the heart of MM, can continue downward to develop, enter our next stage.