I have always believed that people tend to look over the fence and the grass is always greener on your neighbour's septic tank. (apologies to Erma Bombeck) I just keep my nose to the grindstone and try to ignore all the negativity. You can find plenty of that without looking too hard or too far. I personally, don't need all that drama in my life. Just ignore it and work on your own creativity. You'll feel better.