What I Would Give....
The other day I read a story by @papa-pepper that really took me on an emotional roller coaster ride. It's a great story that is sure to make you laugh and smile so be sure to check it out here: https://steemit.com/thatwas-horrible/@papa-pepper/how-these-23-little-pests-just-robbed-me-of-an-hour-of-my-life
I've told the ol' mighty pepper himself this in the past before and I will say it again. He is an extremely blessed man to have the family that he has. I'm envious of him because of this.
Photo of the Pepper Family borrowed from this post: https://steemit.com/born/@papa-pepper/a-brand-new-pepper
I've lived one hell of a life and I have done things that many people have only dreamed of doing. But there's an empty hole in my heart that hurts really bad. My wife and I have been wanting Little Bandito's for ourselves for a while now but the cards just haven't been in our favor. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be? Maybe it was meant for us to adopt or foster? Only time will tell.
I know that I would be a great dad and I got a lot of cool toys to play with too! It would be a shame to leave this earth and not have anyone to pass my stuff along to, mentor, carry on my name and share law enforcement stories or life in general to. Or most important of all, bring a new life in to this world and raise him/her to be the best person possible and try to give them the most joy and love out of life. Whenever I think about this, I become really depressed. I would give anything to have a son. I would give anything to have a child no matter the gender but I would really love to have a son. Literally, I would give up everything I have and then some for this special blessing that so many people take for granted. It kills me to see parents take their children for granted and do unbelievable things.
But anyway, I didn't want to make this in to a long post. I just think this Little Red Pepper is the cutest little girl I have ever seen in my life and her daddy is one hell of a lucky man which I'm sure he knows.
I love this song and thought it was fitting.
3DoorsDownVEVO
Published on Nov 23, 2009
Music video by 3 Doors Down performing Be Like That. (C) 2001 Universal Records, a Division of UMG Recordings, Inc.
Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I invite you to follow along with me on this Steemit journey as I have many law enforcement related stories that I want to share with you! @bluelightbandit
I have no meaningful words to offer @bluelightbandit other than I wish for you and @carolina-girl to have everything in this life that brings you joy. As well as the good health and fortune to make it your reality. ;)
Thank you, Rebecca.
Dude. You would/will be the BEST father.
And you're right- you got a LOT to offer a wee one.
Don't give up. Something magical will happen exactly as it should.
Hugs! 😍
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I did read his post with those little toys. I hope you get your opportunity, I feel blessed to also have the chance to have children and love being able to devote myself to them.
That little girl would have me wrapped so tight around her finger, she could get away with anything!
And I would probably kill over with a heart attack when the dating age rolled around.
That or I would be the worst dad ever because I would be tagging along in the backseat with a shotgun.
Wow, I know what I'll be praying tonight... thanks for putting everything in perspective.
Yes sir, you've got some special little angels running around with ya there!
As the last person in the family, I feel I have let them down in some ways, like not having anyone to carry on the family name after I'm gone. Not to have anyone that will recall the adventures and stories and experiences. Some people think its overrated. But..
I try to cheer myself up by saying I would probably be a terrible parent. But....
It can be hard missing out on something that others take for granted. But it's never too late..
Believe me when I say that I know what you mean. I wouldn't try to convince yourself that you would be a bad parent because I know better.
Kids are such a blessing. I too wished for them for so many years. The joy and love they bring is the best part of life. Never give up the dream my friend. 🐓🐓
I am from a ---very--- large family. Unbelievable in today's world.
Some children are fine. But an army of children is too much.
So, that took the great desire for children from me from the beginning.
I have two boys. Men now.
And that was because my first wife was so sure we needed them.
I roll with the flow.
I had my kids when I was a kid.
But, the grandchildren are different. Ha
Oh, I liked your music selection btw.
Thank you
Francis
This song has always been a favorite of mine since it was released back in 2001. Thanks for checking it out!
It's fucked up how some of the people who deserve children the most can't have them but low life's that I wouldn't let watch my dog are having litter after litter. My sister who has a great job with full benefits is a devout Christian and financially secure had to go to China to adopt her daughter... cost her about 80K
That is crazy man and there is no way in hell we could even come close to being able to afford that!
Just the other day, a mother was driving down the road with her baby in the car when she passed another car in a no-passing zone. Speed being one of the factors, she ran off of the road and ended up with the car submerged in a pond. She was able to make it out of the car and swim to safety but left the baby inside the car. She never attempted to go back after the baby. Needless to say the baby was dead when the first responders pulled the baby out.
I just wrote a post about how you shouldn't judge other people unless you've been in their shoes and even then you should tread carefully. But I just can't imagine how someone could even think about themselves in a time like that. Getting my baby out would have been my absolute main priority. And if I couldn't get the baby out, then I probably wouldn't have made it out either. She shouldn't have even been putting the childs life in danger in the first place by driving recklessly. I know charges are pending obviously. I hope they shove the book up her ass.
And in my line of work, you just wouldn't believe the horrible things that I have seen over the years that have just made my stomach turn and make me want to take children in on my own. It's just not fair!
And if you're not familiar with the case, you should read up on what happened to poor Erica Parsons. She was actually adopted also. So sad, man.
Wow. I just read the article on Google. I hope those adoptive parents get exactly what they deserve.
I’m sure you will be able to show a child how great of a Dad you can someday. I love my two sons with all my life and am thankful to god every night when we say prayers and I tuck them into bed every night. Great post brother!
Thanks man, hopefully one day my dream will become a reality.
I wish for you and your wife, @carolina-girl to have everything you wish for in life, health, happiness and family. You will find a way to make a miracle happen. Believe.