The Secret of Lasting Relationship: Love!
I have been asked why I always talk about love?
My answer is clear and simple, love is the very foundation of our existence, if love does not exist humans never will.
In all relationship involving a male and female, we need the three kinds of love there is;
Plutonic Love: A selfless love between friends. This is why we talk about a friend that sticks closer than a brother.
Agape: This is general love that we must have for everyone. The reason you can't kill a fellow man
Romantic love: This is the one most of us have in our relationship, but fact remains we need all.
The Bible also talks about how important love is in pure worship. That is why the apostle John talk about love in that serious manner when he said:
"He that does not love has not come to know God because God is love"
Our creator himself is love. He has manifested it in the way he does things in time past and in creation.
Perhaps,maybe I picked so much of this quality of his. I am however happy to have it this much.
The next you need to see how Love could be manifested you could drop by my door.
Love Never Fails
No matter how sick your relationship might be, the strongest way to form a lasting bond is to build a love that never fails.
When you are both apart, our heart could play mind games with us. We could have a dying love. But whence its true, it can and will never fail.
Love believe and bears all things, however it rejoices in truth and success.
We must abstain from loving people because we use them. This days people use people and love things, it should be the other way round.
An undying love can stand the test of time. We must strive to build such love.
We must correct our spouses in a loving way instead of complaining. We can learn to ignore faults and show them lovingly how things could get better.
No one ever made sense or won any fight by complains. When we love someone, we should always learn to listen before we speak.
Scrutinize our actions before we take them. Its never easy to shun a bad attitude, but instead of nagging, we can show love in the way we attend to these matters.
Love from the heart does not get provoked indecently. We must curtain our angers from over flowing as this does nor show real love.
Lifting our voice against those we love may send a different message altogether and sometimes create enemity.
When we practice domestic violence it may put us out of love.
We must always keep loving our spouse like our own body.
Love will help us to avoid cheating on them. How and why?