Worst things you can do to yourself
There is a list of things that can ruin your life and health unknowingly but the worst thing is clinging to your past.
There is a reason behind calling past, Past. It has gone and believe me it has gone for good. There is no need of adhering to it. It will just aggrandise your present problems. Please! Let it go.
Then comes not appreciating what you have.
My grandfather used to say and now I understand it completely, “Don't be unappreciative towards your home even if it's very small. You don't know what's outside of it.”
We used to live in Kahror Pakka and got shifted to Bahawalpur few years ago. We live in a rented home and everytime in a month when a huge portion of our income goes to our house owner, I realize how right was my grandfather! How important is our own house for us!
So, be appreciative towards what you have. You never know that the list of your possessions is the wishlist of another person around.
Then comes letting vengeance control your emotions.
Vengeance is a fire. It burns everything of the home where it resides.
You don't know what your revengeful feelings are doing to yourself. You are not planning to ruin their life. You are ruining yours.
Learn to forgive and forget. Learn to move on. It's the best thing you can do for yourself.
Then, letting others bridling you.
You were born as an individual. You have ability to do all the wonders others are doing. Just don't let anyone to control you.
You are capable of changing your destiny and the world around you. Don't underestimate yourself.
No one knows what you want. No one knows what you were born for. So, don't let anyone control your life even if you think it's for you.
That's all from my side.
Thank you for sharing these wise and valuable insights with us :)
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